Chasing the Rainbows

Chasing the Rainbows šŸ’” Grief Doesn’t Wait. Neither Should Support. šŸ’”
ā€œWhen you lose a parent, you lose your past. The world keeps spinning—but their hearts don’t.

Chasing the Rainbows a 501c3 NPO providing free support, therapy & healing programs for all infertility, baby loss, miscarriage, stillbirth & infant loss survivorsšŸ©·šŸ’™šŸ¤Donate or host a fundraiser to help grieving parents heal & honor babies gone too soon When you lose your baby, you lose your future.ā€

When a parent loses a child, life as they knew it is shattered. At Chasing the Rainbows, we believe no one should navigate that darkness alone.

🌈 We are a 501(c)(3) nonprofit showing up for grieving parents in all 50 states—every single day. Whether it’s infertility, miscarriage, stillbirth, or infant loss, our mission is clear: šŸ’› Meet grief where it is. Offer support the moment it's needed. Because grief doesn’t come in monthly meetings or once-a-year walks. It’s messy, urgent, overwhelming—and it deserves care in real time.

šŸ’¬ Here’s how we help—100% FREE, 365 days a year:
šŸ•Šļø Daily Virtual Peer Support Groups
šŸ¤ One-on-One Mentorship & Check-ins
šŸŽ§ Cry It Out Loud! Podcast
🧠 Free Individual Trauma Therapy
šŸ“¦ Coping Care Packages Delivered Nationwide
šŸ“š Grief Support Resources for Family & Friends
🧘 Mindful Movement & Nervous System Regulation Tools..and more support created by survivors, for survivors.

šŸ’” Want to make an impact today?
šŸŽ Mail a gift: PO Box 382, Dallastown, PA 17313
šŸ“§ Partner with us or become a monthly donor: info@chasingtherainbows.org
šŸ”— Donate Online: https://chasingtherainbows.org/donation/

šŸ™Œ Whether you're a survivor, supporter, or simply someone with a heart to help—you belong here. Every gift, every share, every kind word helps us reach one more parent on the hardest day of their life. From the bottom of our hearts—thank you for believing grief deserves better.
šŸ’« Together, we're building a world where no grieving parent walks alone.

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We are officially kicking off Women’s History Month by celebrating the extraordinary women who make Chasing the Rainbows...
03/04/2026

We are officially kicking off Women’s History Month by celebrating the extraordinary women who make Chasing the Rainbows what it is. šŸ’—

Our organization is filled with powerful, resilient, incredibly strong women. Mothers. Advocates. Leaders. Women who have turned unimaginable pain into purpose and continue to show up for grieving families every single day. All month long, we’ll be featuring the women behind our mission and the impact they create in the pregnancy and infant loss community.

Today, we are honored to start with the woman who started it all, our founder and CEO, Bernice Quesenberry. Bernice built Chasing the Rainbows from a place of love and loss, creating a community that serves families navigating grief, healing, and hope after loss. Her leadership and advocacy has created safe spaces for bereaved mothers and families not only in our community, but far beyond.

Women’s History Month is about honoring strength that isn’t always loud but is always powerful. Bernice embodies resilience, courage, and purpose driven leadership, and we are so grateful for her vision.

Help us celebrate her and the incredible women shaping history every day. šŸ’•

Pregnancy after loss is a constant conversation in your head.It’s smiling at your ultrasound photo… and then panicking f...
03/03/2026

Pregnancy after loss is a constant conversation in your head.

It’s smiling at your ultrasound photo… and then panicking five minutes later. It’s feeling a wave of gratitude… followed by a wave of fear. It’s Googling every symptom at 2am. It’s holding your breath in every waiting room. It’s checking for blood every single time you go to the bathroom.

March is Pregnancy After Loss Awareness Month, and if this is you, you are not dramatic. You are not negative. You are not ungrateful. You are a mother who knows how quickly everything can change.

No one talks enough about the mental load of a rainbow pregnancy. The anxiety before appointments. The fear of getting attached. The guilt when you feel joy. The triggers that hit out of nowhere. You can be deeply thankful for this baby and still desperately miss the one who isn’t here. You can celebrate and grieve in the same breath. You can be healing and still hurting. Both can be true.

If you are walking through pregnancy after loss right now, this is your reminder that your feelings make sense. You are not alone in this. There is a whole community of loss mamas who understand the quiet fear behind the smile. At , we offer specific support groups for pregnancy after loss. Register using the šŸ”— in our bio.

In the depths of loss, you never forget who held space for your grief and who quietly stepped away. šŸ¤Loss changes you. W...
02/23/2026

In the depths of loss, you never forget who held space for your grief and who quietly stepped away. šŸ¤

Loss changes you. Whether you are grieving the death of a loved one, facing infertility, losing a dream, or walking through a life transition you didn’t choose, grief reshapes your world. It slows everything down. It makes the small things feel heavy. It reveals what is steady and what is not.

In seasons of grief and healing, you remember the people who sat with you in the silence. The ones who did not rush your pain. The ones who checked in weeks and months later. The ones who let you cry, vent, question, and feel without trying to fix you.

And you remember who quietly stepped away.

Grief has a way of clarifying relationships. It shows you who can hold space for hard conversations, complicated emotions, and the long road of healing. It also reminds you that outgrowing people during loss is sometimes part of growth.

If you are navigating loss right now, in any form, you are not weak for struggling. Grief is not something to ā€œget over.ā€ It is something you learn to carry. Healing is not linear. Some days feel manageable. Others feel impossible. Both are normal.

You deserve support.
You deserve understanding.
You deserve community.

The thoughts that wouldn’t stop after baby loss.ā€œI wish I actually felt like a mom instead of the girl whose baby died.ā€...
02/18/2026

The thoughts that wouldn’t stop after baby loss.

ā€œI wish I actually felt like a mom instead of the girl whose baby died.ā€

If you’ve had intrusive thoughts after infertility, pregnancy loss, stillbirth, or infant loss, you are not broken. You are grieving. šŸ¤

After losing a baby, so many parents struggle with identity.
Am I still a mom? Does motherhood still count if my baby isn’t here? Why do I feel invisible in my grief?

You ARE a mother.
You carried love.
You carried life.
You carry grief because you carry love.

Baby loss grief is not just about missing your child. It’s grieving the motherhood you didn’t get to fully experience. The firsts. The milestones. The future you imagined.
If these thoughts live in you, this is normal after pregnancy loss. You are surviving trauma. You are loving your baby in the only ways you can now. You are enduring the unthinkable.

You are not alone.

Before loss, I assumed pregnancy was guaranteed.After loss, I know every moment is fragile and sacred.Pregnancy loss cha...
02/16/2026

Before loss, I assumed pregnancy was guaranteed.
After loss, I know every moment is fragile and sacred.

Pregnancy loss changes you. Miscarriage changes you. Stillbirth changes you. Infant loss changes you. Grief after baby loss is not just sadness. It is a before and after.

If you have experienced infertility, miscarriage, stillbirth, infant loss, or pregnancy after loss, you understand this shift. The innocence is gone. The assumptions are gone. What remains is a deeper awareness of how fragile life truly is.
Baby loss grief is complex. It shows up in joy and fear. It shows up in milestones. It shows up in quiet moments no one else sees. Healing after loss is not about moving on. It is about learning to carry love and grief at the same time.
You are not dramatic.
You are not broken.
You are changed.
And that change deserves compassion, support, and community.

Loss changes everything.
What is something that changed for you?

At Chasing the Rainbows, we provide free daily support for families navigating infertility, miscarriage, stillbirth, infant loss, and pregnancy after loss. You do not have to walk this road alone.

Valentine’s Day can feel different when you are grieving. While the world celebrates love with flowers and chocolates, m...
02/14/2026

Valentine’s Day can feel different when you are grieving. While the world celebrates love with flowers and chocolates, many grieving parents are quietly holding space for the little hearts they carry in their own. šŸ’—

If you are walking through miscarriage, stillbirth, infant loss, or child loss, today may feel heavy. It may bring memories of the Valentine’s Day you were pregnant. The outfit you imagined. The baby you dreamed of holding. The future that changed.

Valentine’s Day after loss is not about ā€œmoving on.ā€ It is about loving deeply. It is about honoring your baby’s name. It is about recognizing that you are still a parent. Always.

Love does not end with loss. It simply changes form. Today we are holding space for every grieving parent remembering their baby. If you feel comfortable, share your baby’s name below. We would be honored to say it with you.šŸ¤

Forget flowers and chocolates… All I want for Valentine’s Day is two pink lines.If you know, you know. For anyone on the...
02/13/2026

Forget flowers and chocolates… All I want for Valentine’s Day is two pink lines.

If you know, you know. For anyone on the TTC journey, Valentine’s Day can hold hope, heartache, resilience, and the quiet dream of seeing a positive pregnancy test. Those two pink lines represent love, faith, and the miracle so many of us are praying for.

Whether you’re trying to conceive, navigating infertility, walking through IVF or IUI, or healing after pregnancy loss, you are not alone. This season can feel beautiful and bittersweet at the same time, and your feelings are valid.

Our support groups will be running all weekend, offering a safe space for real conversations with people who truly understand. If your heart needs community, encouragement, or simply a place to exhale, we are here. Sign up using the šŸ”— in our bio.

Baby loss isn’t just grief. It’s a before and after.Losing a baby changes you in an instant. There is life before miscar...
02/13/2026

Baby loss isn’t just grief. It’s a before and after.

Losing a baby changes you in an instant. There is life before miscarriage. Life before stillbirth. Life before infant loss. And then there is everything after.

Baby loss is not something you ā€œmove onā€ from. It is something you carry. It reshapes your identity, your motherhood, your relationships, and the way you see the world. The grief after losing a child is deep, complex, and lifelong.

You don’t slowly become someone new. You are changed overnight. If you are grieving a miscarriage, stillbirth, or infant loss, your pain is valid. Your baby mattered. Your love still matters.

Pregnancy loss and infant loss awareness means acknowledging that grief is not linear. It is tender. It is ongoing. It is part of your story. At Chasing the Rainbows, we believe bereaved parents deserve support, community, and space to honor their babies—today and always. šŸ¤

Every loss matters. Miscarriage. Infertility. Infant loss. Stillbirth. Ectopic pregnancy. Chemical pregnancy. Embryo los...
02/11/2026

Every loss matters.

Miscarriage. Infertility. Infant loss. Stillbirth. Ectopic pregnancy. Chemical pregnancy. Embryo loss. TFMR. Blighted o**m. Molar pregnancy. Vanishing twin. Early term loss. Late term loss. SIDS. IVF transfer loss. Child loss.

No matter how your baby was lost, your grief is real. Your baby is real. Your love is real. There is no timeline you have to follow. Whether you are grieving a miscarriage at 6 weeks, navigating infertility, healing after stillbirth, surviving SIDS, or carrying the weight of child loss, your story matters here.

Baby loss changes you. It reshapes your heart, your identity, your relationships, and the way you see the world. And you deserve support, compassion, community, and space to say your baby’s name out loud.

If you feel comfortable, tell us your baby’s name in the comments. šŸ¤ We would be honored to hold space for them and speak their name with you.

It’s hard to grieve something when you still have hope for it. And if you’re walking through infertility, trying to conc...
02/09/2026

It’s hard to grieve something when you still have hope for it. And if you’re walking through infertility, trying to conceive, pregnancy loss, or secondary infertility, you know this feeling deeply.

You’re grieving the baby you haven’t held yet.
Grieving the timeline you imagined.
Grieving the ease you were told would happen.
And yet you still hope.
Hope for a positive pregnancy test.
Hope for your rainbow baby.
Hope that your body will do what you’re begging it to do.
Holding grief and hope at the same time is exhausting.
But it doesn’t make you weak.
It makes you human.

If you’re longing for a baby, navigating infertility treatments, IVF, IUI, miscarriage, stillbirth, infant loss, or unexplained infertility, you are not alone. Your grief is valid. Your hope is allowed. Both can exist together.

Happy Super Bowl Sunday! šŸˆWe hope your day is filled with great food, even better company, and a little bit of joy. Some...
02/08/2026

Happy Super Bowl Sunday! šŸˆ

We hope your day is filled with great food, even better company, and a little bit of joy. Sometimes it’s nice to have a distraction from our grief. It’s normal and natural to step away for a moment and allow ourselves to live life alongside our grief.

Our Communications Coordinator, Kelsi, is from Seattle and cheering on the Seahawks! Go Hawks!

Who are you rooting for today? Are you Team Seahawks šŸ’™šŸ’š or Team Patriots ā¤ļøšŸ’™?

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