02/09/2026
Itâs hard to grieve something when you still have hope for it. And if youâre walking through infertility, trying to conceive, pregnancy loss, or secondary infertility, you know this feeling deeply.
Youâre grieving the baby you havenât held yet.
Grieving the timeline you imagined.
Grieving the ease you were told would happen.
And yet you still hope.
Hope for a positive pregnancy test.
Hope for your rainbow baby.
Hope that your body will do what youâre begging it to do.
Holding grief and hope at the same time is exhausting.
But it doesnât make you weak.
It makes you human.
If youâre longing for a baby, navigating infertility treatments, IVF, IUI, miscarriage, stillbirth, infant loss, or unexplained infertility, you are not alone. Your grief is valid. Your hope is allowed. Both can exist together.