03/29/2020
While we are in a time of so much uncertainty, I am also seeing so much change, growth, reflection, strength, and love. One of the activities I am doing with many clients right now is having them write a letter to their future self. This is something I will mail to them in one year. I believe this can be a powerful tool as right now many are focused on figuring out what is truly important to them, reevaluating their values, realizing the importance of connection, and learning to be a human being rather then a human doing. My hope is that we can hold on to these things and continue to incorporate them into our lives, but chances are we may forget some of these things. So having a reminder can be meaningful tool. I encourage you to try this out yourself.
Imagine writing to your future self one year from now — what would you say? What kind of person would you be? What goals would you want to have achieved? Not only is it mind boggling, but it gets you thinking about your goals 1 year from now. As you write your letter, you will start to think about the actions you should take to realize them in your expected time frame.
Subsequently when you open your letter one year down the road, you get to assess the things that match (or don’t match) up vs. your expectations, and reflect why that’s the case. Often times, our goals are subject to a lot of changes due to unanticipated circumstances and changing priorities. Reading your letter lets you see how your life trajectory has changed since writing it. It also makes you pause and think about how you are doing, and whether you are where you want to be in life.
In addition, when you write your letter, your consciousness and thoughts are stored in your words. When you read it, it’s like you are being contacted by the old you. It provides you a different perspective and lets you see how much you have changed since then. 🙂
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