Holistic Sex Ed with Allissa

06/03/2024

https://www.wholistics*xed.com/post/is-s*x-education-grooming-children

Just added a new blog titled “Is S*x Ed Grooming Children?”. Usually used as a talking point by the far right, there is some genuine concern in there for some parents that s*x Ed might ‘groom’ their kids to want to have s*x sooner than they might have naturally, or “lose their innocence”. Want to read more? Check it out and send it to a friend ☺️

Our worst fear as parents is that someone will intentionally harm our kids, and a lot of us know how common it actually is. So, when it comes to s*x education a question that comes up for some is whether or not this education is actually s*xually grooming young kids. At the heart of this is our deep...

02/23/2024

This doesn’t mean that men don’t face societal pressures or body image issues, because they absolutely do, but it’s become a social phenomenon to celebrate dad bods (and they ARE s*xy) and yet mom bods still seem so stigmatized, certainly not celebrated, and repulsive to many.

Why do you think this is?

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02/23/2024

Let’s talk about them in the comments!

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02/21/2024

What should I ask him next??

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02/20/2024

I know I’m usually quite soft and kind… and I really don’t mean this to be harsh

But sometimes we need to hear it straight, no sugar coating

✨If we haven’t told our partner what we want, showed them how, corrected them when they didn’t get it quite right and reminded them probably a few times… we are the reason we aren’t having better s€x ✨

Yes, absolutely, sometimes we engage with people that continue to ignore our needs and wants, disregard our desires or show absolutely no interest in pleasing us, but that’s a separate issue isn’t it?

What’s unfair is for us to assume that just because our partner isn’t getting everything right that they don’t care, or don’t want to please us. It’s not fair to assume that just because they haven’t asked what we like, or want, or if we’ve orgasmed, that they don’t care.

Most of us are running around with a slightly skewed idea of what s€x should be or look like. And usually the idea is that pe*******on is the end all be all and that communication, checking in, asking, or telling someone what we want kills the mood

Sometimes we have to be the brave one and be the first one to speak up

🛏 Have you ever been the reason why you aren’t having better s€x? I sure have! Let’s talk about it in the comments 😊

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02/18/2024

Don’t just nod and keep scrolling

Spend some time actually considering this

Most of us are going through the motions, doing the things we think s€x is supposed to consist of. And we might happen upon a few really nice moments where things feel really good… but then we continue to move through the motions and steps to complete what we consider s€x

That isn’t how it needs to be. You can start s€x a million different ways and do a million different things that all ‘count’ as s€x and none of them have to be the prescribed methods. And you can find something you really love that night and ask to just keep doing that. You don’t need to go from A to B to C.

Make your intimate life what works for you, and make it suit you at any given moment

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02/15/2024

This obviously isn’t unanimous to all age gap relationships and I think I hit the jackpot but 😉

I had a hard time with this because I don’t know that much of this even has to do with Toms age, as much as it does his personality and the biggest hurdle our age gap has created is a few glances in public 🤷🏻‍♀️

But I think we’re really lucky and found each other at just the right time ☺️

🌈 Is there anything else you want to know about our dynamic?

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02/14/2024

Guys I forgot today is Valentines Day 🤣🤣

As a holiday, it doesn’t really hold a lot of value to me, but love in general is priceless ☺️

Muslim love
Gay love
Black love
As*xual love
Single love
Poly love
Le***an love
Straight love
Bis*xual love
Age gap love
Old love

All the love 🥰

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02/14/2024

🌈What are your thoughts about s€x work? Have you ever done it or considered it?

I sure have thought about it!
I wanted to start an Only Fans page with an old friend where we would do educational videos like how to finger someone, locating the prostate, ha***ob tips, how to choke someone somewhat safely, etc etc.

Never panned out because I’m camera shy but it was an awesome idea and I still love the thought of it 😆
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02/13/2024

*Reposted to fix a vital text error*

Death is not the answer. Taking innocent lives is not the answer.

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02/08/2024

Whether it’s men, women, an@l, swallowing cum, getting spit on, being spanked, very specifically a tall Italian man in a suit with a pink tie and a black belt, or the feeling of being loved, appreciated and deeply valued

You never got to pick

Those were the cards handed to you and crafted by your life and experiences

We don’t judge ourselves so horribly about our favorite colors, music or styles

So why this? What makes this so hard to accept about ourselves? What do you think?
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02/07/2024

But also…. What’s wrong with being gay? What if it did make you gay? What’s so bad about that??

Just curious!

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