Halligan-McCabe-DeVries Funeral Home, 614 N Main Street, Davenport, IA (2026)

12/17/2025

Ronald Dean Brooks

Ron Brooks, 79, of Davenport, passed away Monday, December 15, 2025, at home, surrounded by his loving family.

The family will greet friends 11:00 am – 1:00 pm on Monday, December 22, 2025 at the Halligan-McCabe-DeVries Funeral Home, Davenport. A memorial service will directly follow at 1:00 pm with military honors.

In Lieu of flowers, memorials may be made to the Marines Toys for Tots Foundation or the Quad City Animal Welfare Center, Milan.

Ron was born on July 15, 1946, in Dubuque, Iowa, a son of Robert and Eunice (Kartman) Brooks. He attended Dubuque Senior High School, enlisting in the Marines in 1963 and served until 1967. Ron is a Vietnam Veteran. The stars aligned on his birthday in 1970 in East Dubuque, where he met Judi (Splinter). They were married on July 10, 1971, in Dubuque. Judi was the love of his life; they built a family and made many beautiful memories in their Davenport home for over 54 years. Before retiring, Ron was a construction inspector with the City of Davenport for over 28 years.

Ron thoroughly enjoyed being a “Girl Dad.” He coached his daughters in softball, taught them how to fish and camp, and that a burp was a compliment to the chef. As a member of the Garfield Elementary Dad’s Club, he initiated the building of the backstops on the softball fields at Garfield Park. After retirement, Ron and Judi hopped into their RV and traveled to various destinations across the United States. His favorite adventure being their opal mining trips to the Royal Peacock Mine in Virgin Valley, Nevada. They ended up trading their RV for a park home in Adelaide Shores in Avon Park, Florida, where Ron was active in the Wood Carvers and Burners Club. Back home in Iowa during the warmer months, you would find Ron putzing around his backyard, tending to his birds and squirrels.

On any given day you could find Ron watching his favorite game shows: Let’s Make a Deal, Jeopardy and The Price is Right. Throughout the years, he loved to fire up a pot of his famous chili or jambalaya to share with family and friends at band parent events, Bix tailgating, and numerous open house parties he and Judi would host at their home.

Above all else, Ron loved being “Poppy” to his two grandchildren. He adored them and loved their adventures to the Bettendorf Children’s Museum or for a ride in his Jeep with the top down for a chili dog or ice cream cone. Nothing made him happier than to have his home filled with their laughter and joyful noise.

The family would like to extend a heartfelt thank you to Heartland Hospice for the superior care and compassion that was provided to Ron and the support they provided the family.

Those left to honor his memory include his Wife, Judi; daughters, Ali (Dustin) Weber, Erin (Kenny Foust) Croll; grandchildren, Eliza Croll and Cameron Weber; siblings, Barbara Eveland, and Tom (Molly) Brooks, brothers-in-law, John (Polly) Splinter, and Joe (Debbie) Splinter, and numerous nieces, nephews and cousins.

He was preceded in death by his parents, brother, Mark Brooks, and sister, Donna Jacobsmeir.

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12/16/2025

Larry Harris

Larry Dell Harris, 72, of Davenport passed away, Tuesday, December 9, 2025 at his home.

Memorial services will be held at 10:00 am on Monday, December 22, 2025 at Halligan-McCabe-DeVries Funeral Home. Burial will be in the National Cemetery, Rock Island Arsenal. Memorials may be made to the family.

Larry was born on June 3, 1953 in Dewit, Arkansas, son of Charleston and Leora (Fitzpatrick) Harris. He was united in marriage to Venita Legier.

Larry moved to St. Louis during his childhood and graduated from Soldan High School. He later came to the Quad Cities and worked as a welder for John Deere and Sears Manufacturing. He also kept busy doing odd jobs. Larry loved fishing, shooting pool and working on cars. He was a good husband and father and will be deeply missed.

Those left to honor his memory include his wife Venita; children Corinne Atimbaneme and Amber (Terrez) Glover; grandchildren Taj Brickmore, Mario, Kevin, Regina, Jaleesa, Zaila, Miles, Alexa and T.J.; and siblings Patricia Jones, Felton (Sharon) Harris, Gerry Harris, Marilyn (Charles) Shorter, Debra (Ken) Henry, Robert (Robbie) Harris and Karen Coleman.

He was preceded in death by his parents, daughter Larece Trimble, and siblings Helen Hearns, Ray Harris, Danny Harris and Steve Harris.

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12/16/2025

Patricia A. Steiger

Memorial services celebrating the life of Patricia “Pat” Steiger, 92, of Bettendorf, will be held at 10 am on Tuesday, December 30, 2025, at Halligan-McCabe-DeVries Funeral Home, Davenport. Inurnment will be in Mt. Calvary Cemetery, Davenport. Visitation will be from 4-7 pm on Monday at the funeral home. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made to St. Jude’s Children’s Hospital or McAnthony’s Window.

Mrs. Steiger passed away Friday, December 12, 2025, at Select Specialty Hospital, Davenport.

Patricia Ann Burke was born May 26, 1933, in Davenport, to Edmund and DeMarys “Mickey” (McDonnell) Burke. She was united in marriage to James Allen Steiger on December 13, 1958, and he preceded her in death on December 9, 1990.

Prior to her retirement in 2002, she had been the executive director for Iowa East Central T.R.A.I.N for 35 years.

Pat lived a full and vibrant life, deeply rooted in her community and enriched by the arts. She was a member of the Quad City Symphony and actively involved in several organizations, including the Elks, CASI, the Bix Society, and the Plus 60 Club. Through these groups, she formed lasting friendships and remained engaged in the social and cultural life of the Quad Cities.

An avid traveler, Pat delighted in exploring new places. She loved to dance and had a special appreciation for jazz music. Whether attending events, listening to music, or enjoying time with friends, she embraced life with enthusiasm and grace.

Above all else, family was her greatest joy. She was a devoted mother, grandmother, great-grandmother, sister and she especially cherished time spent with her grandchildren, whom she adored beyond measure.

Survivors include her children Max (Sue) Stanley of Ponte Vedra, FL, Todd (Kelly) Stanley of Foxfield, CO, Dan (Ginger) Steiger of Butler, TN, Mary Sammon of Davenport; grandchildren Brenna (Anthony) White, Danielle (Ron) Skrogstad, Ryan Steiger, Jimmie (Ashley) Henry, Lara Rich (Randy), Brad Denney (Angela); eleven great grandchildren; sister and best friend Carole Scherz of Davenport; several nieces and nephews; and dear friends.

Additionally, she was preceded in death by son Jamie Steiger, grandson Benjamin Stanley, sister Mary Jo Early, brother Richard “Dick” Burke and brothers-in-law Lee Early, Lou Scherz, and Herb Steiger.

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12/16/2025

Donald Herman Metz

Donald “Don” Herman Metz, 67, of Davenport, passed away Saturday, December 13th, 2025, at MercyOne Genesis, Davenport.

Per his wishes cremation rights have been accorded.

Family will greet friends from 10:00 – 11:00 a.m. on Saturday, December 27th, 2025, at Halligan-McCabe DeVries Funeral Home in Davenport, Iowa. A memorial service will directly follow. Memorials may be made to the family or MercyOne Genesis Foundation.

Don was born on February 7, 1958, in Rock Island, Illinois, the fourth son of James E. and Sharlene (Schroeder) Metz. He graduated from Rock Island High School in 1976. Don spent over 20 years with his best friend, Diane Tabor.

Don had worked various jobs. He was especially proud of his job as a welder in the oil fields in Casper, Wyoming, where he lived for 5 years. He was currently employed at Parts Authority/IWI Motor Parts, Moline, Illinois. He enjoyed traveling, working and was very proud of his Lionel train collection. He was a member of the Lionel Collectors Club of America and often attended their yearly conventions throughout the country with Diane. He enjoyed spending time outdoors. He loved animals, fishing, camping and feeding birds in his backyard. Don took great pleasure in his remodeled motorhome adventures with his family.

Those left to honor his memory include his longtime companion, Diane Tabor; mother, Sharlene Metz; brothers: James Metz, Allan (Barbara) Metz, Kevin (Jane) Metz and Gery Metz; sister-in-law, Pola Metz; nephew, Garrett (Amanda) Metz; nieces, Kylie Metz and Denise (Jayson) Hoteling; great-nephews: Seth Cooney, Maxwell Hoteling, Gabriel and Grayson Metz and great-niece, Felicity Hoteling. As well as Diane’s children Michael Tabor and his friend Shea Wild and Christine(Ross) Bierl and their children: Leah, Tessa and Declan.

He was preceded in death by his father, James Metz, brother, Dennis Metz and niece, Karen Cooney.

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12/15/2025

Mary Lee Overstreet

Mary Lee Overstreet, a beloved matriarch and cherished friend, passed away on December 8, 2025, in Davenport. A memorial service to honor Mary will be held at 11:00 am on Thursday, December 18, 2025 at Third Missionary Baptist Church, Davenport.

Born on June 9, 1942, in Mississippi to Ireen Coolage, Mary lived a life characterized by her boundless kindness and welcoming nature. She had an extraordinary ability to make others feel at ease, and those who had the privilege of knowing her loved her deeply.

A devoted mother, Mary is survived by her children, Oreen Harrington, Leonard (Fawn) Overstreet, Gloria Overstreet, Allean Overstreet, and Mary Harrington. Her legacy continues through her granddaughter, Mary E Harrington "Poochie", a host of grandchildren, great-grandchildren, nieces, nephews, and other beloved relatives and friends. Mary was predeceased by her mother, Ireen Coolage, her sons, Robert Harrington, Randy Harrington, and her daughter, Wonder Grace.

Throughout her life, Mary cherished spending time with her family, nurturing relationships that brought joy and warmth to all who gathered around her. Her love for everyone she met left a lasting impression, enriching the lives of many. A true embodiment of grace and affection, Mary Lee Overstreet will be profoundly missed but fondly remembered by all who had the honor to know her.

Psalm 23

The Lord is my shepherd, I shall not want.

He makes me lie down in green pastures;

He leads me beside quiet waters.

He restores my soul

He guides me in the paths of righteousness

For His name’s sake.

Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I fear no evil, for You are with me;

Your rod and Your staff, they comfort me.

You prepare a table before me in the presence of my enemies;

You have anointed my head with oil;

My cup overflows.

Surely goodness and lovingkindness will follow me all the days of my life,

And I will dwell in the house of the Lord forever.

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12/14/2025

Dr. Rosina Linz

Dr. Rosina Linz was born on May 28, 1954, in Asten, Austria, to Valentine and Anna (Quintus) Linz. In 1956, she immigrated to the United States with her parents and siblings and settled in Davenport, where she was raised. After graduating from Central High School in 1972. Rosina moved to California to pursue her education in psychology.

Dr. Linz earned her doctorate in Psychology from the California School of Professional Psychology in Berkeley/Alameda, California, where she studied from 1987 to 1990. Prior to completing her doctorate, she received her Master of Science in Psychology from San Francisco State University from 1985 to 1987. She earned her bachelor’s degree in psychology and German Literature from the University of California, Santa Cruz, attending from 1983 to 1985, after earlier studies at Foothill College from 1981 to 1983.

Beyond her academic achievements, Rosina loved the outdoors and found great joy in walking along the beach with her beloved furry companions. She shared a special bond with Tiffany and Teddy, who preceded her in death, and with Toby, who remains in the loving care of her family.

Rosina dearly loved all her nieces and nephews as if they were her own, sharing with them her kindness, wisdom, and unwavering support.

Rosina was preceded in death by her parents, Valentine, and Anna Linz; her brother and sister-in-law, Jacob, and Sharon K. Linz; and her brothers-in-law Alfred Milas and Ronald Luchtel; and sister-in-law Sharon L. Linz.

Rosina is survived by her siblings: sister Anna (Linz) Milas; sister Mary (Linz) Luchtel; brother Leo Linz; and sister and brother-in-law Barbara (Linz) and Jeffrey Garnica, all of Davenport.

Known for her intelligence, thoughtfulness, and dedication, Rosina approached both her professional and personal life with depth, compassion, and integrity. She was deeply respected for her academic achievements and her commitment to lifelong learning.

Dr. Linz will be remembered not only for her scholarly accomplishments, but also for her gentle spirit, her love of nature, and the meaningful impact she had on those who knew her. She will be deeply missed by her family, friends, colleagues, and all whose lives she touched.

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to the Santa Cruz SPCA, 2016 Chanticleer Avenue, Santa Cruz, CA 95065 (a non-profit organization), or to UnityPoint Hospice, 106 19th Avenue, Suite 101, Moline, IL 61265.

The family extends heartfelt thanks to the wonderful staff at UnityPoint Hospice, whose compassion and care helped make Rosina’s end-of-life transition a true blessing.

Online remembrances may be expressed at www.hmdfuneralhome.com.

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12/13/2025

Rafael Calzada-Rameño

Memorial Mass of Christian burial for Rafael Calzada-Rameño, 87, of Davenport, will be held at 10am on Friday, December 19, 2025, at St. Anthony’s Catholic Church, Davenport. Inurnment will be in Oakdale Memorial Gardens, Davenport. In lieu of flowers, monetary donations may be made to the fund established by the family. https://gofund.me/33072ed61.

Mr. Calzada-Rameño passed away Friday, December 12, 2025, at Harmony Utica Ridge, Davenport.

Rafael was born March 28, 1938, in Chapala, Jalisco, Mexico, the only son of Rafael Calzada and Lucia Rameño.

Rafael lived life with energy, humor, and a deep appreciation for the people around him. A lifelong fútbol fan, he spent countless hours on the field playing the game he loved. Later in life, he proudly continued his connection to the game as a referee, remaining close to the sport that brought him so much joy. It was through fútbol that he met the love of his life, María del Refugio-Herrera, his future wife, who first came to watch him play, beginning a beautiful story that would last a lifetime. They were united in marriage on April 25, 1957.

Known for his outgoing personality, Rafael was a natural jokester and the life of every gathering. His quick wit, infectious laughter, and playful spirit brought warmth and laughter wherever he went.

When not on the pitch or sharing a laugh, he could be found working in his garden and yard. Prior to his retirement he had been a metal worker for Rich Metals Co.

Above all else, Raphael adored his family. He was a devoted grandfather and great-grandfather who treasured every moment spent with his grandchildren and great-grandchildren. Their happiness meant everything to him, and his love for them was constant and unmistakable.

Survivors include his wife, María; daughters Adriana (Andrew) Sorenson of Jefferson, IA, Lourdes Gutierrez of San Antonio, Lucia (Juan) Montaño of Davenport; son Arturo (Lynn) Calzada of Davenport; seventeen grandchildren; and eight great grandchildren.

He was preceded in death by his son Rafael “Fay” Calzada-Herrera, grandson Andrew Sorenson, and five sisters.

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12/13/2025

Dave Hebbeln

Funeral services and Mass of Christian Burial for Dave Hebbeln, 83, of Davenport, will be held at 10 am on Friday, December 19, 2025, at St. Alphonsus Catholic Church, Davenport. Burial will be in Holy Family Cemetery, Davenport. Visitation will begin with a Rosary at 3:30 pm on Thursday at the Halligan-McCabe-DeVries Funeral Home, Davenport, continuing from 4 - 7 pm. Additional visitation will be held on Friday at the church from 9 – 10 am. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made to the church or the Scott County Humane Society.

Dave’s show came to end in the same place it started, Davenport. He was born on July 9, 1942, at Mercy Hospital to Herbert and Marie (Doner) Hebbeln and passed away on December 11, 2025, at his home.

He graduated from Assumption High School in 1960 and went to work at Matthew’s Office Equipment and then opened Hebbeln’s Standard Station on West Locust Street. Dave began working at ALCOA in May 1964 and retired May 31, 1994.

He was united in marriage to Sandra Nelson on December 15, 1962, and she preceded him in death on April 23, 1987. He then married Lynne Schiffke on August 1, 1987.

Dave coached girls’ and women’s softball from 1973 to 2023, leaving a legacy that touched generations of players. He led the Blazers women’s fastpitch team, guiding them to a national finish as high as fifth in the nation. He also served as president of the Eastern Iowa Metro League, where his leadership and commitment helped strengthen the sport throughout the region.

For the last twenty years of his coaching career, Dave served as an assistant coach at Augustana College, offering guidance, mentorship, and encouragement to countless student athletes. Prior to that, he was the final head coach at Marycrest College. Beyond softball, Dave also shared his enthusiasm for athletics by coaching basketball at St. Alphonsus School.

Dave will be remembered for his unwavering dedication to his teams, his deep love of coaching, and the positive impact he made on so many lives over his 50-year coaching career.

He enjoyed collecting and restoring Plymouth automobiles and especially valued the time he spent collaborating with his friend Bobe Lopez on all things related to old Plymouths. Dave says he will see you on the other side.

Survivors include his wife Lynne; daughters Lori Butterbrodt and Lecia Remley; six granddaughters; three great granddaughters and a great grandson.

Additionally, he was preceded in death by his parents, brother Dennis, and sons David Carl and Patrick John who died at birth.

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12/12/2025

Frank Bockenfeld

Frank Bockenfeld, 86, of Davenport, passed away peacefully November 15, 2025 at his home.

Memorial services will be held at 11:00 am on Friday, December 19, 2025, at Halligan-McCabe-DeVries Funeral Home. Family will greet friends from 10:00 am until the time of service at the funeral home. Inurnment will be in Mt. Calvary Cemetery, Davenport with military honors. Memorials may be made to the family.

Francis William Bockenfeld was born on July 15, 1939 in Davenport, Iowa, a son of Louis and Cecelia (Mandel) Bockenfeld. He was united in marriage to Carolyn Smith. They later divorced. He was then united in marriage to Barbara Webb on September 22, 1990. She preceded him in death on May 10, 2024.

Frank was a veteran of the United States Navy. He then began his trade as a carpenter. Throughout his life he was a very good handyman and was always known to “Frankify” things to make them up to his standards. After a few years of carpentry work, he then began his career at Caterpillar for over 30 years and then went on to work at Jensens. He finally retired as a tool and dye maker at the age of 70. Frank enjoyed taking care of his home and his yard. He was known for his holiday decorations. Frank was a member of St. Andrew Catholic Church, where he enjoyed Fr. Bud’s sermons that led to many spirited conversations with family. He was very devoted to his wife and enjoyed taking vacations to visit and spoil the grandchildren.

Those left to honor his memory include his daughter Bonnie K. Wills; grandchildren Tarrah (Jared) Beard, Selah (Satch) Baldwin and Elikah (Maximilliano Rodriguez) Wills; great grandchildren Hannah Beard, Colton Beard, Finley Rae Kelley, Micah Rodriguez, and one on the way, Genevieve; siblings Delores Saling and Robert “Bob” Bockenfeld; and three nieces.

He was preceded in death by his parents, wife Barbara, son Francis William “Skip” Bockenfeld, Jr., and siblings Louis “Bud” Bockenfeld, Mary Laugen and Richard “Dick” Bockenfeld. He has been united together again in glory with all who preceded him.

Bonnie would like to thank St. Croix Hospice for everything they did to make my dad’s passing peaceful.

As the song goes by Frank Sinatra, “I Did It My Way”, Frank Bockenfeld did just that.

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12/12/2025

Raymond R. Boeding

Raymond R. Boeding, who entered eternal life on December 10, 2025, was born on a hot August day on the prairie in Glad Valley, South Dakota, where his family had homesteaded in 1905 after emigrating from Germany. Raised among his six brothers and six sisters, Ray learned early the values of faith, family, and perseverance. He attended a one-room schoolhouse until fourth grade, when years of sandstorms, insect infestations, and failed crops forced the family from their farm. Through every hardship, Ray often spoke of how his mother’s steadfast faith guided the family forward.

In 1939, the family returned to West Point, Iowa, where Ray completed his education at St. Mary’s High School. After graduation, he worked at the Shafer Pen Company before being called to serve in the U.S. Army in 1950. He completed basic training at Ft. Leonard Wood, Missouri, and served in the combat infantry during the Korean War. Ray carried a quiet sense of duty throughout his life, rooted in gratitude to God for bringing him safely home.

Following his military service, Ray attended the University of Iowa, earning a degree in accounting in 1956. During his college years, God’s providence brought him together with Joan Fitzgerald, the great love of his life. They were married on December 26, 1953, joining their lives in a sacrament that remained a source of joy, strength, and grace for nearly sixty years.

Ray worked for the Department of the Army at the Army Munitions and Chemical Command (AMCOM) as a financial analyst, retiring as a project manager. He and Joan raised their four children in Davenport before moving to rural Donahue, where Joan served as a school nurse in the North Scott schools. Their home was filled with faith, laughter, and a deep commitment to one another. Family vacations—to Green Lake, Wisconsin; to the South Dakota homestead; to Nebraska to visit relatives; and later to Sunrise Beach at the Lake of the Ozarks—became cherished times of togetherness and gratitude.

Outside of work and family life, Ray enjoyed the gifts of God’s creation through his many hobbies. He took great joy in gardening, tending to his plants with patience and care. He also found creativity in making wine and beer, sharing his homemade batches with friends and family. These activities brought him peace, purpose, and moments of simple delight.

Ray was deeply committed to his faith community. For many years he volunteered at St. Ann’s Catholic Church in Long Grove, Iowa, offering his time and talents to support parish events, building projects, and the daily needs of the church he loved. His quiet service was a reflection of his humble spirit and deep devotion.

Ray is survived by three of his children: Mike and his family of Houston, Texas; Donald and his family of San Francisco, California; and JoEllen of Eldridge, Iowa. He was preceded in death by his beloved daughter Susan in 2022, whom he entrusted to God’s eternal care. Ray is also blessed with seven grandchildren, and four great-grandchildren —each one a reminder of God’s continued blessings on the family he and Joan built together.

After Joan’s passing in 2013, Ray continued living in their country home until moving to Grand Haven retirement home in August 2024. He remained a man of deep faith, prayer, and gratitude throughout his life. Ray approached each day with humility, kindness, and a strong trust in God’s plan.

Raymond R. Boeding now rests in the loving embrace of his Savior, reunited with Joan and Susan, and held in the eternal peace promised by Christ. He will be deeply missed by all who knew and loved him, and his legacy of faith, devotion, and quiet strength will live on through his family.

Funeral services and Mass of Christian Burial for Ray will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m. Saturday, December 20, 2025 at St. Ann’s Catholic Church, Long Grove, Iowa. Burial will be in St. Ann’s Cemetery, Long Grove. Visitation will be held from 4 until 6 p.m. Friday, December 19, 2025 at St. Ann’s with additional visitation on Saturday from 9:30 a.m. until the Mass begins. In lieu of flowers, please direct any donations to St. Ann’s Catholic Church. Halligan-McCabe-DeVries Funeral Home is assisting the family with arrangements.

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12/12/2025

Son Huu Thai

Son Huu Thai, 52, of Davenport, Iowa, passed away on Thursday, December 11, 2025, surrounded by the family he cherished so deeply.

Born on December 18, 1972, in An Giang, Vietnam, Son was the son of Choi Thien Thai and Mot Thi Ho. He grew up understanding the value of hard work and the importance of family. On June 26, 1993, he married the love of his life, Lan Thi Nguyen. Together, they built a life filled with love, laughter, and resilience as they journeyed from Vietnam to Davenport to start a new chapter.

Son devoted his working years to the electronics field, a career that perfectly matched his fascination with technology. He was known for his remarkable skill and reliability. His boss often affectionately called him “the technician god” because he could fix anything he touched.

Though he took pride in his work, Son’s joy lived in life’s simple pleasures. He loved fishing, grilling meat for family gatherings, and singing karaoke with heart and soul. He especially cherished his date nights with Lan, often enjoying long meals together at buffet restaurants. Above all, he was a proud father and a doting grandfather who treasured every moment with his grandchildren.

Before his passing, Son wrote a final message to his friends and family to offer comfort and love one last time. His words are preserved here exactly as he wrote them:

“Thank you to everyone who supported me throughout our time on this awesome planet. I’m heading to a better place now, and I wish you all a happy and prosperous future. Today, I go to meet our Great God and be reunited with my family. Do not cry for me; instead, be happy knowing that I am in His presence.

To my beautiful and loving wife, thank you for being by my side through all the ups and downs. You will always be in my heart, soul, and mind, and I will always cherish our time together. Your cooking is out of this world—it even beats my mom’s! You have to stay strong, just like you were the day we met. I will always be by your side. You better remember to take care of yourself and eat, or I’ll be mad! We will meet again in the next life to be together through the end of time.

To my loving sons, thank you for everything. I’m very proud of what you are doing. I am a man of few words, but I deeply appreciate how hard you fight to defend our country. Stay strong, and know that I’ll be watching you from above. P.S. Sing some karaoke for me!

To my lovely daughters-in-law, thank you for putting up with my sons. They are a handful—trust me, I know. You keep them in line every day, and that is hard work. I entrust them to your care and love.

To my grandchildren, I love you. You made every moment of my life special. From your first words to the 'Grandpa' moments, you make my heart full. Be the best you can be, and do the best you can do. I’ll be watching over you. And make sure you get good grades!

Please don’t think of this as a farewell, but as a new beginning. To all my friends and family: I love you all, and thank you for your support.”

“Cảm ơn tất cả những người đã ủng hộ tôi trong suốt thời gian chúng tôi ở trên hành tinh tuyệt vời này. Bây giờ tôi đang hướng đến một nơi tốt hơn, và tôi chúc tất cả các bạn một tương lai hạnh phúc và thịnh vượng. Hôm nay, tôi đến gặp Đức Chúa Trời vĩ đại của chúng ta và được đoàn tụ với gia đình.

Đừng khóc cho tôi; thay vào đó, hãy hạnh phúc khi biết rằng tôi đang ở trong sự hiện diện của Ngài.

Gửi đến người vợ xinh đẹp và yêu thương của anh, cảm ơn em đã ở bên cạnh anh trong mọi thăng trầm. Em sẽ luôn ở trong trái tim, tâm hồn và tâm trí anh. Anh sẽ luôn trân trọng khoảng thời gian chúng ta ở bên nhau. Thức ăn và cách nấu ăn của em thật tuyệt vời! Nó thậm chí còn đánh bại cách nấu ăn của mẹ anh. Em phải mạnh mẽ như ngày chúng ta gặp nhau! Anh sẽ luôn ở bên cạnh em! Em nên nhớ chăm sóc bản thân và ăn uống nếu không anh sẽ nổi điên. Chúng ta sẽ gặp lại nhau ở kiếp sau để ở bên nhau suốt thời gian. Anh yêu bà xã của anh!!

Gửi đến những đứa con trai yêu thương của cha, cảm ơn con đã làm những gì con làm! Cha rất tự hào về những gì con đang làm! Cha không phải là một người đàn ông nói nhiều nhưng cha đánh giá cao sự chăm chỉ và mạnh mẽ của các con trong việc chiến đấu và bảo vệ đất nước của chúng ta. Hãy tiếp tục làm những gì các con đang làm và cha sẽ theo dõi các con từ trên cao. P.S. hát karaoke cho cha nghe!

Gửi đến con dâu đáng yêu và xinh đẹp của cha, cảm ơn con đã phải đối phó với các con trai của cha. Chúng là một người bận rộn và tin cha đi, cha biết. Các con bên cạnh giữ chúng đi đúng mỗi ngày và đó là công việc khó khăn. Cha giao phó chúng cho các con để xem và yêu thương.

Gửi đến các cháu của nội, nội yêu các cháu và các cháu làm cho mọi khoảnh khắc trong cuộc đời nội trở nên đặc biệt. Từ những khoảnh khắc “ah ah” đến ông nội khiến trái tim nội khóc. Nội yêu tất cả các cháu của nội và hãy là người giỏi nhất và cố gắng hết sức có thể. Nội sẽ trông chừng các cháu trên cao. Hãy chắc chắn rằng cá cháu đạt điểm cao!

Xin đừng nghĩ đây là một lời chia tay, mà là một khởi đầu mới. Tôi yêu bạn! Gửi đến tất cả bạn bè và gia đình của tôi: Tôi yêu bạn, và cảm ơn sự hỗ trợ của bạn.”

Those left to honor his memory include his devoted wife of 31 years, Lan Thi Nguyen, his sons, Tan Buu Thai of Monterey, California, and Tien Trung Thai of Ankeny, Iowa, his daughters-in-law, Thu Pham and Phuong Huynh, and his beloved grandchildren, Alyssa Thai and Emma Thai. Tien and Phuong are expecting a baby, and although Son did not get the chance to meet this grandchild, he shared his hope that the baby would grow up healthy, joyful, and surrounded by love.

He leaves behind a family that will carry his stories, his humor, and his steady presence forward for generations to come.

Visitation will be held at Halligan-McCabe-DeVries Funeral Home on Sunday, December 14, 2025 from 1:00 - 6:00 pm. A Funeral Mass will be celebrated at Sacred Heart Cathedral on Monday, December 15, 2025 at 10:00 am.

View Son Huu Thai's obituary, send flowers, find service dates, and sign the guestbook.

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