Horse and People Project

Horse and People Project Leadership and parenting coach. Author. Speaker.

11/12/2025

Finally got the proof of my book! Absolutely crazy to see it all come together.

The Patience Behind ProgressWhen someone is set on using an ineffective approach, it’s incredibly difficult to change th...
11/06/2025

The Patience Behind Progress

When someone is set on using an ineffective approach, it’s incredibly difficult to change their mind. We’ve all been there—watching someone repeat a pattern that clearly isn’t working, wanting so badly to help them see another way.

But here’s the truth: change rarely comes from force. It comes from patience, understanding, and timing. The moment frustration takes over, even the best intentions can unravel. Every eye roll, every sigh, every hint of irritation can erase the trust you’ve built.

Real progress requires calm persistence. Sometimes that means stepping back, allowing space for reflection, and being ready when they’re finally open to listening. Leading isn’t about proving you’re right—it’s about guiding with grace, even when the road feels long.

This Wednesday, choose patience over pressure. The slow path often leads to the strongest growth.

Over the past five years, I've hosted hundreds of sessions at my farm, Back Fields Farm LLC, in a small town in Maryland...
10/31/2025

Over the past five years, I've hosted hundreds of sessions at my farm, Back Fields Farm LLC, in a small town in Maryland, where individuals have come to learn, not about horses, but about themselves, through the honest, nonverbal feedback of my equine partners.

This book is rooted in the lessons I've learned and stories I've collected over the past few years through my coaching work at The Horse and People Project, an initiative I established at my farm. The title Ask Like You Mean It, comes from something I found myself saying often during sessions, and it became a mantra of sorts.

In 2024, I began accepting public speaking engagements to share these lessons learned, knowing that not everyone can make it out to the farm, but that everyone can benefit from the wisdom of horses. The response has been overwhelmingly positive, and in the process, I found I thoroughly enjoy being a storyteller and public speaker.

That encouragement led me to write this book.

It's a collection of real-life stories: from parents who learned how to connect more meaningfully with their kids, to leaders who suddenly saw how their energy and body language were impacting their teams. Woven throughout are my own stories as well, by my experiences as a mother of five, a former corporate professional, and a lifelong student of both human and animal behavior. Whether you’re parenting a teenager or managing a team, the same themes apply: those of clarity, consistency, authenticity, and compassion.

When it comes to working with horses, certain qualities are essential for success: trust, clear communication, authentic...
10/29/2025

When it comes to working with horses, certain qualities are essential for success: trust, clear communication, authenticity, and boundaries. These elements help build a strong connection between horse and handler, fostering a relationship based on respect and understanding. Without them, the partnership can quickly break down, making progress difficult and unsafe.

Interestingly, these same qualities are just as vital in leadership. Whether guiding a team, managing a project, or inspiring others, a true leader demonstrates trustworthiness, communicates effectively, remains authentic, and sets healthy boundaries.

Both working with horses and leading people require a deep sense of connection and integrity. When we cultivate these qualities within ourselves, we become better at building trust, inspiring confidence, and creating positive, productive relationships.

In essence, leadership isn't just a trait—it’s a mindset rooted in the same principles that help us work harmoniously with animals. By embracing trust, clear communication, authenticity, and boundaries, we can become stronger leaders and more effective connectors in every aspect of life.

Book cover!!I'm thrilled to finally be able to share this with everyone. After many mock-ups and much deliberation, the ...
10/24/2025

Book cover!!

I'm thrilled to finally be able to share this with everyone. After many mock-ups and much deliberation, the cover is officially finalized! I am currently working towards a January launch date, so keep your eyes peeled for more info on that. Thank you to everyone who helped me create a cover that I am so incredibly proud of! Now it feels real!

What a wonderful event. Thank you so much for having me!
10/23/2025

What a wonderful event. Thank you so much for having me!

10/23/2025

Book cover reveal! I'm so excited to finally be able to share this. I'm sure that once I actually have the physical copy in my hands, I'll be emotional all over again!

10/20/2025

Let me know if you want to hear more about the book!

Looking forward to this event! Tuesday Oct 21 😁I'm also looking forward to hearing the other speakers!
10/10/2025

Looking forward to this event! Tuesday Oct 21 😁
I'm also looking forward to hearing the other speakers!

Exciting event!I will be speaking at IGNITE Annapolis on Tuesday, October 21st!Each speaker gets just 5 minutes and 20 s...
10/08/2025

Exciting event!

I will be speaking at IGNITE Annapolis on Tuesday, October 21st!

Each speaker gets just 5 minutes and 20 slides to share their passion, challenge, or story — no fluff, no pitches, just the power of real ideas from real people.

*6–7 PM: Cocktails & networking
*7–9 PM: Presentations in the Main Theatre
*Tickets: $10

Grab your tickets at igniteannapolis.com, or follow the link in my bio.


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