20/02/2026
A Message for Those Unfamiliar with Disability
If you didn’t grow up surrounded by disability, I’d like to take a moment to address you.
You may have learned to follow these guidelines:
- “Don’t stare.”
- “Don’t ask questions.”
- “Just ignore it and move on.”
I understand that these teachings stem from a desire to be polite. However, too often, this silence creates distance, which in turn becomes a barrier.
Here’s the truth:
Disability should neither be pitied nor feared; it is simply a part of the human experience.
- Some individuals are born with disabilities.
- Others may acquire them through accidents or illness.
- And if we are fortunate enough to age, we will all experience changes in our abilities.
Remember: Different does not equate to broken.
Support does not signify weakness; it reflects our ability to adapt and persevere.
You don’t need to have the perfect words or know precisely what to do. What truly matters is your willingness to see, listen, and connect. We are people first; we just approach daily tasks differently.
- Instead of looking away, take a closer look.
- Instead of fearing offense, remain open to learning.
- Instead of making assumptions, engage with respect.
A simple tip: If the only thing you do is say, “Hello, have a good day,” you will show respect to everyone. It’s an easy reminder that applies universally. 👋🏼😃
Inclusion begins with awareness and flourishes through empathy.
Let’s move past discomfort surrounding disability and start creating a society where all individuals are treated with dignity, regardless of how they move, communicate, or navigate the world.
We’re all in this together. Let’s make room for one another.
