12/31/2025
Most of this is self-explanatory, but I wanted to talk a little bit about consent, because this is the single thing I receive the most consistent pushback about from the dance world.
First, I want to say that whenever I put things on my page, it’s because it’s the way I like to do things. It’s not because I think it’s the only way.
Second, it’s not that I never put my hands on a client. But I only ever do this as a last resort. I would like to think that this practice has made me a better coach because I’ve had to build an infinite number of coaching cues to get people to do what I want.
Third, I don’t think you’re a bad person if you touch the people you work with. I understand that strength and conditioning is a different beast. But, if you follow me, I would like to invite you to at least think about ideas around consent and agency. Just because someone has hired you as their coach/teacher/tutor in movement doesn’t mean they’ve agreed ad infinitum to you putting your hands on them.
Having a client’s trust is the ultimate honor. I hope I never delude myself into thinking that trust is something that isn’t earned—every single day through actions big and small, seen and unseen.