01/08/2026
For relationships that aren't improving, maturing is realizing accuracy matters, not more time or endurance.
You used to believe staying longer would change the relationship.
That belief made sense when you didn’t have enough data and because you were scared you'd never have love if you lost this relationship.
But if you’re paying attention, you can see the pattern clearly, and the pattern is no improvement.
Maturity is deciding earlier based on facts, not time invested or hope.
Do you agree? Anything you would add?