Dr Alduan Tartt

Dr Alduan Tartt Dr. Tartt has a private practice and also speaks frequently at conferences, churches, organizations on improving relationships, families and mental health.
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Dr. Alduan Tartt is the go to psychology expert and media expert on dating, relationships, marriage & family, sports, and overall mental health for the faith-based community. Christian Psychologist helping you create thriving relationships. |

Dr. Tartt is a clinical psychologist with a focus on faith, mental health and relationships of all sorts (single, dating, marriage, family, sports, etc.). Dr. Tartt also host radio and television shows and is a frequent guest on major media outlets. Dr. Tartt also counsels other healers and helpers (pastors, ministers, doctors, entertainers) who need to be encouraged, supported and filled up too.

03/05/2026

Couples who pray together and/or do religious activities together decrease divorce rates by 50% according to The Harvard Flourishing Study.

Do you…

1) Pray together regularly…either with and/or for one another?

2) Study the scripture and help apply to your personal lives and relationships?

3) Serve together making the community, church, world a better place as a couple in any way?

Honestly, we could be more consistent in all three of these areas. Which ones do you feel compelled to continue or start?

02/22/2026

One key to a happy marriage is choosing a mutual satisfaction over obligation mindset when it comes to marriage.

Happily married couples consistently focus on how to make their spouse happy/satisfied with being in a relationship with them and make rapid adjustments to ensure that vs requiring an unhappy partner to endure circumstances that are dissatisfying and harm their sense of happiness.

Do you agree and how do you check in with your partner to make sure both of you are happy?

“I have learned, in whatsoever state I am, therewith to be content.” — Philippians 4:11

02/17/2026

Valentine’s Day can play tricks on you in three ways (full video is 1st link in bio):

1) Miswanting- this is a psychological term where the mind is trick into thinking it wants a relationship only because everyone else seems to be in one but you were happy before Feb 14th already

2) Emotional Hunger Pains- this is where the holiday did ignite a deep desire to be in a relationship and you need to be more intentional about it.

3) Patience- this is simply the story of Hannah from the Bible where your relationship/dream is coming but you must be patient versus getting discouraged.

Which ones can you identify with?

02/13/2026

Successful women really struggle in dating when they 1) Lead with their resume vs. character 2) Compare resumes vs. getting to know the man and 3) Not screening to make sure men are secure or insecure before agreeing to date. I'll explain exactly what successful women should do to have great dates without dumbing down or turning off marriage minded men who do NOT desire to talk about titles, work or money on dates. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bcT7epl0rmk

If men have to adapt to impress successful women, shouldn't women adapt to date men who don't care more about your chara...
02/13/2026

If men have to adapt to impress successful women, shouldn't women adapt to date men who don't care more about your character, friendliness and desire to get to him too? Let me explain for every man who feels this way too https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bcT7epl0rmk

02/06/2026

Comment “connect” and I’ll send you a first date blueprint to avoid being ghosted and be magnetic instead!

Never ask, “So what do you do for a living,” on a first date. Also, never ask for a credit score, where they live (assessing for zip code wealth), how much they make, what they drive, etc. 😡.

Men do not like feeling “interviewed” before he know if you even like him. Men don’t want to have to “perform” for a girlfriend or wife. We wish to just be liked genuinely.

I give you waaaay better questions to ask if you want men to plan a second date with you while still on the first one because you are so amazing.

1) Lead with warmth, not work. Start human before you start assessing. (“I’m glad we did this—how’s your day really been?” “What’s been the best part of your week?”)

2) Ask identity-first questions. Learn who he is before you focus on what he produces. (“What do you enjoy about your work?” “What made you choose that path?”)

3) Use the Curiosity Ladder (flow, not rapid-fire). Ask → follow up → reflect → share a little → invite him back. (“What made that meaningful?” “I can tell you value ___.” “I’m similar because…”)

4) Catch bids for connection. If he jokes, tells a story, or shares a detail—receive it. (“Wait—tell me more.” “That’s funny—what happened next?” “I like your sense of humor.”)

5) Share micro-disclosure (no trauma dumping). Give small, warm glimpses of you so you’re memorable. (“I’m lowkey nerdy about ___.” “A perfect Saturday for me looks like…”)

6) Bring spark + standards. Stay warm and clear about intentional dating. (“I date intentionally—what does that mean to you?” “How do you handle conflict when you care?”)

7) Offer a future glimpse (without pressure). Light vision questions signal purpose, not desperation. (“What are you building in your life right now?” “What does a healthy relationship look like day-to-day?”)

8) Keep romantic energy (chemistry without chasing). Be present, playful, and feminine—don’t make it feel like HR. (“Quick question—what’s your most controversial food opinion?” “I can tell you’re competitive… am I right?”)

I break this down in even more detail (see link in bio).

God. Wife. Family. Legacy. “Well Done My Good & Faithful Servant.”This is the goal (and saving the world lol).
02/03/2026

God. Wife. Family. Legacy. “Well Done My Good & Faithful Servant.”

This is the goal (and saving the world lol).

01/23/2026

Comment “favor” so I can send the strategy for how to be findable to attract good men to you.

Why would you allow good men to come off the market because you are waiting for a husband to find you when you could be more findable so her can marry you?

How can he ask you out on a date if he never is in the same room as you? Ijs

Let me@know your thoughts!

01/16/2026

Comment FIND and I’ll send you a complete plan for where to find good men and it’s not the normal places.

However, I need you to do three things:

1) I need you to know the exact qualities you desire in a boyfriend/husband (I need substance beyond how he looks, how tall he is or his money…character traits are what I need.

2) I need you to use your network (connections) to send you a hookup. Why? Good people know good people and super social people know a lot of people. We use connections for everything else….use them for finding your spouse too!

3) Position yourself in places your future husband is likely to be (high character people do high character things- coach, church, business conferences, volunteer, work out, volunteer, etc.)

Also, I am not judging clubs or bars. You can meet a good man anywhere! I am just giving you a different perspective.

01/13/2026

How I Would Find In Wife In Modern Times:

Why am I doing this post? Honestly, because every man I know talks about how hard it is to find a wife and I agree. Here’s my five but I’ll do another video with my honest top strategy later.

1) Go to places where highly quality, high character women are, where I am the minority (very few men).

2) Approach immediately versus wait for another man to steal her attention.

3) Approach with high energy and immediately give compliments with intensity. My wife knows I’m always extra lol.

4) Ask deep questions to see if we vibe and ask follow up questions to show that I know how to be listen and intensify my interest in her. I am also screening for vibe and character too.

5) Ask about my most immediate deal breakers because why waste time if we are not a match (do you go to church, do you read/smart/have a talent, do you smoke - we had too many people pass due to Cancer in my family so this one is more personal than judgmental).

Notice that I did not screen for kids, money or weave. I can work with all of those things. I just want the best woman.

Also, this is not unique to me. Every married or intentional single man in my feed would have a similar energy but with a different style.

Thoughts?

01/09/2026

No one truly understands the pressure of ministry, especially in the public eye, with a national platform and as a First Lady and/or female pastor.

Your wins and gifts are often under-celebrated, seen as intimidating and your community of support is often very small due to trust issues and unrealistic expectations.

I am happy my brother, Pastor Jamal, defended his wife but he shouldn’t have had to. I would love to see more credit be given for her extraordinary talent (she is a while doctor), less scrutiny on what any woman wears especially from men, and more focus on the beautiful blessing of their marriage and ministries.

I prayed and delayed posting this but sometimes our silence as believers can be hurtful when those we love are attacked without compassion, true understanding and void of the empathy that Jesus would have and not have the interpersonal intelligence to respect privacy about what any couples wears unless you are a fashion magazine lol.

They had to pause their ministry work to respond to this foolishness AND we (my wife and I) loved the dress, for the record. What you don’t know is that the dress looks different in person vs the photo but whatever.

I also don’t like men telling women what to wear (especially another pastor commenting on any man’s wife from a pulpit). How is that ever appropriate or respectful and is a double standard.

Love this couple and I defended my friend, Devon, when the church had something to say about his wife at the time being a Hollywood rockstar and dressing accordingly. Love wins over jealousy, hate and judgment every day of the week for 365 days a year.

You are loved, supported and appreciated! Also, I cannot wait to read the supportive comments from those who feel the same or have lead with love and empathy. God Bless!

01/04/2026

Comment “network” and I’ll send you the full video where I show you how to network to meet the man you want without even leaving your home.

Also full video 🔗 is in bio.

Here’s what you should do. Want better men to date who come up to you?

Treat dating like networking for a high level job and apply Proverbs 15:22-

Without consultation and wise advice, plans are frustrated, but with many counselors they are established and succeed.

In application, the more great people you ask to hook you up, the more great people they will introduce you to, especially if you are an amazing woman!

The answer to your dating issue might just simply be, “You have not because you ask not.”

So, just ask and let the great dates roll and I pray they are high character, ambitious, funny and eye candy too lol (hard to fall in love with a man who doesn’t make you double take lol).

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