Dr Alduan Tartt

Dr Alduan Tartt Dr. Tartt has a private practice and also speaks frequently at conferences, churches, organizations on improving relationships, families and mental health.
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Dr. Alduan Tartt is the go to psychology expert and media expert on dating, relationships, marriage & family, sports, and overall mental health for the faith-based community. Christian Psychologist helping you create thriving relationships. |

Dr. Tartt is a clinical psychologist with a focus on faith, mental health and relationships of all sorts (single, dating, marriage, family, sports, etc.). Dr. Tartt also host radio and television shows and is a frequent guest on major media outlets. Dr. Tartt also counsels other healers and helpers (pastors, ministers, doctors, entertainers) who need to be encouraged, supported and filled up too.

01/09/2026

No one truly understands the pressure of ministry, especially in the public eye, with a national platform and as a First Lady and/or female pastor.

Your wins and gifts are often under-celebrated, seen as intimidating and your community of support is often very small due to trust issues and unrealistic expectations.

I am happy my brother, Pastor Jamal, defended his wife but he shouldn’t have had to. I would love to see more credit be given for her extraordinary talent (she is a while doctor), less scrutiny on what any woman wears especially from men, and more focus on the beautiful blessing of their marriage and ministries.

I prayed and delayed posting this but sometimes our silence as believers can be hurtful when those we love are attacked without compassion, true understanding and void of the empathy that Jesus would have and not have the interpersonal intelligence to respect privacy about what any couples wears unless you are a fashion magazine lol.

They had to pause their ministry work to respond to this foolishness AND we (my wife and I) loved the dress, for the record. What you don’t know is that the dress looks different in person vs the photo but whatever.

I also don’t like men telling women what to wear (especially another pastor commenting on any man’s wife from a pulpit). How is that ever appropriate or respectful and is a double standard.

Love this couple and I defended my friend, Devon, when the church had something to say about his wife at the time being a Hollywood rockstar and dressing accordingly. Love wins over jealousy, hate and judgment every day of the week for 365 days a year.

You are loved, supported and appreciated! Also, I cannot wait to read the supportive comments from those who feel the same or have lead with love and empathy. God Bless!

01/04/2026

Comment “network” and I’ll send you the full video where I show you how to network to meet the man you want without even leaving your home.

Also full video 🔗 is in bio.

Here’s what you should do. Want better men to date who come up to you?

Treat dating like networking for a high level job and apply Proverbs 15:22-

Without consultation and wise advice, plans are frustrated, but with many counselors they are established and succeed.

In application, the more great people you ask to hook you up, the more great people they will introduce you to, especially if you are an amazing woman!

The answer to your dating issue might just simply be, “You have not because you ask not.”

So, just ask and let the great dates roll and I pray they are high character, ambitious, funny and eye candy too lol (hard to fall in love with a man who doesn’t make you double take lol).

01/03/2026

The ability to attract top tier, Godly men without leaving the house is the top request I hear from my friends looking for good men. So, let’s make it happen.

Comment “easily” and I’ll explain all seven ways to do this and they work!

Watch full video here https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vCeydufpO3w

God, just send Him to me and make him find & fall in love with me easily.” Make me findable like in Proverbs 18:22.

First tip is…I need you to master ego stroking and being magnetic by being interested and interesting as soon as you meet an attractive man because the average man gets ignored all week long.

Well, here are the full 7 tips to make that happen.

✅ Network Like a Woman Who Expects Results
Tell trusted friends, mentors, and couples you’re open to meeting a marriage-minded man—quality introductions beat random luck.

✅ Create an Online Attraction Strategy
Use a polished, warm profile that shows confidence, values, and femininity so the right men are drawn to you.

✅ Make Dating a Lifestyle (Not a Rare Event)
Consistent, low-pressure dates build confidence, momentum, and better discernment—without emotional burnout.

✅ Stop Being Unfindable
Position your life so you’re regularly in mixed-gender spaces where high-caliber men actually are.

✅ Go Where Men Naturally Initiate
Attend conferences, leadership events, and professional spaces where confident men approach without games.

✅ Be Magnetic & Emotionally Electric
Men fall in love with how they feel around you—warmth, curiosity, appreciation, and emotional safety create attraction.

✅ Filter Quickly to Protect Your Heart
Pay attention to consistency and character early so you don’t waste time on men who aren’t ready.

12/31/2025

Comment “seven” and I’ll explain each one and I bet you’ll love it and interview is first 🔗 in bio. Here 7 things marriage minded women do to get the man!

1) Active positioning vs passive waiting- ambitious vs lazy approach to allowing that King to flirt with you

2) Clear about intent vs vague about commitment - not wasting time with any man who is not marriage serious now

3) Wise, Biblical standards vs rigid checklist - not 6 feet, 6 figures and 6 pack but great man to look at who is a great guy with high character

4) Character-driven vs chemistry obsessed- Is he a solid, moral King vs a good time

5) Dating Actual Talent vs Potential- Already has treated women in his past in amazing way and is a great catch now vs “social work project” lol

6) Building Relationship Skills Vs Hoping Love Fixes Everything- Making sure you can communicate through conflict before you date vs hoping you can be a good communicator- be impressive ASAP

7) Generously Wooing A Man Off His Feet vs Being Guarded - You stroke his ego so well he hunts you down after the first few dates vs simply observing him.

Let me know your thoughts. Men will eat out of your hands when you really try to be impressive but pick well. Only the best deserve this!

12/31/2025

Can A Good Man Even Find You?

Link in bio for full@interview

It sounds simple but many women forget that the best way to get a date is to be easily “found” by men which is why women who are more social have overwhelmingly more dates than women who are not.

12/31/2025

The Number ONE mistake women make it dating that will make finding a husband impossible. You change this and more men will enter into your life in 2025/2026 and it is totally up to you! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iVZIqvZU5uc

12/20/2025

Black Fatherhood Deserves Respect:

Check out this research:

Hands-on daily care: In national NSFG data (CDC/NCHS), Black fathers living with children under 5 were the most likely to do daily hands-on care (bathing/dressing/diapering/toileting): 70% daily (vs. 60% White, 45% Hispanic). 

• Daily meals with young children: 78% of Black resident fathers of children under 5 ate meals with them every day (vs. 74% White, 64% Hispanic). 

• Reading to young children: Pew’s analysis of NSFG data reports 62% of Black co-resident fathers read to their children under 5 several times a week or more. 

• Present even when not living in the home: Among fathers living apart from their children, Pew reports 67% of Black fathers saw their children monthly or more (compared with 59% White, 32% Hispanic). 

Source: Pew Research

12/19/2025

Why do women ask so FEW questions of men before falling in love (or even in like) when dating? Here are 7 questions you MUST ask before you catch feelings to prescreen for a great man. Your heart matters so screen like it. Watch here https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fRRJyYCIZ5U&t=1s

12/19/2025

Too many amazing women are giving their heart to men who were never even pre-qualified. Before you fall in love, test his readiness.

👉 Comment “prescreen” if you want me to break these down deeper and drop the full Husband Readiness checklist.

Here’s a simple, chronological way to screen a man before he gets full access to you:

1. Godly
Does he actually walk with God, or just talk church? Watch his fruit, not just his phrases.

2. Wants Marriage & Fidelity
Does he see himself as a future husband and value faithfulness—or just “see where it goes” while keeping options open?

3. Emotional Provider
Do you feel emotionally safer and calmer after talking to him… or more anxious, confused, and drained?

4. Growth-Oriented
Is he working on himself—spiritually, emotionally, financially—or stuck on “this is just how I am”?

5. Influenceable
Can he receive feedback and adjust, or does any suggestion feel like an attack on his ego?

6. Stable
Is he reasonably stable in work, finances, living situation, and mental health—or are you already starting to feel like his rescue plan?

7. Secure
Is he secure enough to let you have a life, friends, and boundaries without control, jealousy, or games?

From now on, don’t just ask, “Do I like him?” Ask, “Is he Godly, ready, and SAFE for my heart?”

12/16/2025

Families shouldn’t be able to pay rent for 30 years and still have nothing to pass down.

Corporate landlords are buying up our neighborhoods, driving up prices, and threatening generational wealth and stable communities.

Housing should be about families, not just profit. And Senator Jon Ossoff has been taking on corporate landlords and working to make housing affordable for Georgia families.

Join me and tell Senator Ossoff to continue fighting to lower housing costs in Georgia.

12/15/2025

Read Full Description & comment “Healing” and I’ll send an explanation you can study or give to a friend ⬇️⬇️⬇️

This video is for anyone who says they want a safe partner… but is ready to ask, “Am I a safe space too?”

Use this as a self-check, not self-condemnation. Growth > guilt.

1️⃣ Problem: You listen to defend, not to understand

When your partner shares their feelings, you jump in to explain, argue, or fix. They walk away feeling unheard and alone.

• Solution: Listen to understand first, not to win.
• Action Step: Next time they share something emotional, pause, breathe, and reflect back what you heard before you explain your side.

• Scripture: “Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry.” – James 1:19

2️⃣ Problem: Their vulnerability isn’t fully safe with you

If you’ve ever used something they shared in confidence later in an argument, a joke, or as a weapon… their heart remembers it. That puts their guard back up.

• Solution: Treat what they share as sacred, not strategic.

• Action Step: Make a quiet commitment: “What you share with me in vulnerability will never be used against you.”

• Scripture: “Love… keeps no record of wrongs.” – 1 Corinthians 13:5

3️⃣ Problem: You respond harshly when they are most tender

When they finally open up, you might shut down, criticize, minimize, or tell them they’re “too sensitive.” That teaches them: “My feelings are a burden.”

• Solution: Respond with softness when they’re vulnerable.

• Action Step: When your partner shares something hard, lower your tone, soften your face, and lead with reassurance:

“Thank you for trusting me with that. I can see this is hard. I’m here, and I want to understand.”

• Scripture: “Be kind and compassionate to one another…” – Ephesians 4:32

Healed hearts don’t just want safety—they become safety.

💡 Save this as a personal checklist.
👥 Share it with someone who’s working on being a better emotional partner.

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