Dr Alduan Tartt

Dr Alduan Tartt Dr. Tartt has a private practice and also speaks frequently at conferences, churches, organizations on improving relationships, families and mental health.

Dr. Alduan Tartt is the go to psychology expert and media expert on dating, relationships, marriage & family, sports, and overall mental health for the faith-based community. Christian Psychologist helping you create thriving relationships. |

Dr. Tartt is a clinical psychologist with a focus on faith, mental health and relationships of all sorts (single, dating, marriage, family, sports, etc.). Dr. Tartt also host radio and television shows and is a frequent guest on major media outlets. Dr. Tartt also counsels other healers and helpers (pastors, ministers, doctors, entertainers) who need to be encouraged, supported and filled up too.

12/19/2025

Why do women ask so FEW questions of men before falling in love (or even in like) when dating? Here are 7 questions you MUST ask before you catch feelings to prescreen for a great man. Your heart matters so screen like it. Watch here https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fRRJyYCIZ5U&t=1s

12/19/2025

Too many amazing women are giving their heart to men who were never even pre-qualified. Before you fall in love, test his readiness.

👉 Comment “prescreen” if you want me to break these down deeper and drop the full Husband Readiness checklist.

Here’s a simple, chronological way to screen a man before he gets full access to you:

1. Godly
Does he actually walk with God, or just talk church? Watch his fruit, not just his phrases.

2. Wants Marriage & Fidelity
Does he see himself as a future husband and value faithfulness—or just “see where it goes” while keeping options open?

3. Emotional Provider
Do you feel emotionally safer and calmer after talking to him… or more anxious, confused, and drained?

4. Growth-Oriented
Is he working on himself—spiritually, emotionally, financially—or stuck on “this is just how I am”?

5. Influenceable
Can he receive feedback and adjust, or does any suggestion feel like an attack on his ego?

6. Stable
Is he reasonably stable in work, finances, living situation, and mental health—or are you already starting to feel like his rescue plan?

7. Secure
Is he secure enough to let you have a life, friends, and boundaries without control, jealousy, or games?

From now on, don’t just ask, “Do I like him?” Ask, “Is he Godly, ready, and SAFE for my heart?”

12/16/2025

Families shouldn’t be able to pay rent for 30 years and still have nothing to pass down.

Corporate landlords are buying up our neighborhoods, driving up prices, and threatening generational wealth and stable communities.

Housing should be about families, not just profit. And Senator Jon Ossoff has been taking on corporate landlords and working to make housing affordable for Georgia families.

Join me and tell Senator Ossoff to continue fighting to lower housing costs in Georgia.

12/15/2025

Read Full Description & comment “Healing” and I’ll send an explanation you can study or give to a friend ⬇️⬇️⬇️

This video is for anyone who says they want a safe partner… but is ready to ask, “Am I a safe space too?”

Use this as a self-check, not self-condemnation. Growth > guilt.

1️⃣ Problem: You listen to defend, not to understand

When your partner shares their feelings, you jump in to explain, argue, or fix. They walk away feeling unheard and alone.

• Solution: Listen to understand first, not to win.
• Action Step: Next time they share something emotional, pause, breathe, and reflect back what you heard before you explain your side.

• Scripture: “Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry.” – James 1:19

2️⃣ Problem: Their vulnerability isn’t fully safe with you

If you’ve ever used something they shared in confidence later in an argument, a joke, or as a weapon… their heart remembers it. That puts their guard back up.

• Solution: Treat what they share as sacred, not strategic.

• Action Step: Make a quiet commitment: “What you share with me in vulnerability will never be used against you.”

• Scripture: “Love… keeps no record of wrongs.” – 1 Corinthians 13:5

3️⃣ Problem: You respond harshly when they are most tender

When they finally open up, you might shut down, criticize, minimize, or tell them they’re “too sensitive.” That teaches them: “My feelings are a burden.”

• Solution: Respond with softness when they’re vulnerable.

• Action Step: When your partner shares something hard, lower your tone, soften your face, and lead with reassurance:

“Thank you for trusting me with that. I can see this is hard. I’m here, and I want to understand.”

• Scripture: “Be kind and compassionate to one another…” – Ephesians 4:32

Healed hearts don’t just want safety—they become safety.

💡 Save this as a personal checklist.
👥 Share it with someone who’s working on being a better emotional partner.

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Blessed to be able to celebrate my wife as she was celebrated as a Woman’s Wellness Warrior for a lifetime of work in wo...
12/11/2025

Blessed to be able to celebrate my wife as she was celebrated as a Woman’s Wellness Warrior for a lifetime of work in women’s health and wellness by last week.

Anyone who knows Mecca knows how dedicated she is to women being active, putting their health first and being part of community. It was an honor to celebrate her work being honored by the community. She looks goooood too.

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12/10/2025

Comment “talent” so I can send you the video where I really break down how men can lead very strong and talented women and be masculine.

Privately, men are already doing this and more brothers and sisters need to adapt to the times so we can increase our marriage and marriage satisfaction rates.

Men are not “intimidated” by women but rather lost on how to have better relationships without changing everything about himself.

Do you feel most men want to lead in this way and build together vs be alone from the sideline?

12/09/2025

What if marriage/relationships could be based on co-contribution vs. control/power based on gender? As men, we have an opportunity to lead this change and add more harmony at home. No one has time to argue lol. In this video, I explain how this arrangement already existed in the Bible.

What are thoughts on how to contribute as a team in relationships? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p9tZkRwj8e4&feature=youtu.be

12/08/2025

Comment “succeed” and I’ll send you a three point blueprint for how great men can adapt to dating and loving “strong” women.

Men, especially Black men, must do three critical things to love the strongest version of Black women ever.

Women no longer need just a financial provider (although I know not one woman will refuse one). They want a better leader who adapts to the modern world where women do work a lot.

Men must:

1) Lead with contribution vs control

2) Make emotional intelligence a superpower

3) Create a team vs tug-a-war approach

In all, the best relationships and marriages now build around talent vs traditional gender roles that don’t fit modern wo/men.

This is an open call to adapt and evolve versus argue so we can all have more love and better love. We are indeed happier together when we are aligned.

Let me know your thoughts…

11/25/2025

Modern Marriage Requires Gender Roles To Change At Home.

Why should women who work the same or more than men still do more cooking and cleaning at home? It’s literally hurting their health, happiness and even their intimacy.

On the other end, does your marriage need to shift to the women getting that bag too and the man doing more at home to raise kids, cook, etc. so it can be balanced?

If you are married, you get this post. If you are not, you have a myth that most marriages are one breadwinner households and that men work and women clean but that is gone, a myth and the minority.

Black people need CASH and a two earner household is now the norm, will become even more of the norm and both spouses will have to adapt so the marital responsibility is fair based on ability and reality not the 1970’s lol.

Thoughts…

11/24/2025

While single Black men are more afraid of marriage than ever and struggling financially, married men are laughing all the way to the bank BECAUSE THEY ARE MARRIED. Find out why and how you should rethink your fears about marriage because it could be the blessing that you never knew... https://youtu.be/nlwSsSswXxw

11/14/2025

Is Finding A Wife Hard For Men? I’m voting YES but here are three things men should do to find a wife.

1) Look for women in high value places (church, professional organizations, etc.)

2) Be a high value man who is a high value add to a wife and family)

3) Screen For Value vs Vibes

What would you add?

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