Dr Alduan Tartt

Dr Alduan Tartt Dr. Tartt has a private practice and also speaks frequently at conferences, churches, organizations on improving relationships, families and mental health.

Dr. Alduan Tartt is the go to psychology expert and media expert on dating, relationships, marriage & family, sports, and overall mental health for the faith-based community. Christian Psychologist helping you create thriving relationships. |

Dr. Tartt is a clinical psychologist with a focus on faith, mental health and relationships of all sorts (single, dating, marriage, family, sports, etc.). Dr. Tartt also host radio and television shows and is a frequent guest on major media outlets. Dr. Tartt also counsels other healers and helpers (pastors, ministers, doctors, entertainers) who need to be encouraged, supported and filled up too.

02/06/2026

Comment “connect” and I’ll send you a first date blueprint to avoid being ghosted and be magnetic instead!

Never ask, “So what do you do for a living,” on a first date. Also, never ask for a credit score, where they live (assessing for zip code wealth), how much they make, what they drive, etc. 😡.

Men do not like feeling “interviewed” before he know if you even like him. Men don’t want to have to “perform” for a girlfriend or wife. We wish to just be liked genuinely.

I give you waaaay better questions to ask if you want men to plan a second date with you while still on the first one because you are so amazing.

1) Lead with warmth, not work. Start human before you start assessing. (“I’m glad we did this—how’s your day really been?” “What’s been the best part of your week?”)

2) Ask identity-first questions. Learn who he is before you focus on what he produces. (“What do you enjoy about your work?” “What made you choose that path?”)

3) Use the Curiosity Ladder (flow, not rapid-fire). Ask → follow up → reflect → share a little → invite him back. (“What made that meaningful?” “I can tell you value ___.” “I’m similar because…”)

4) Catch bids for connection. If he jokes, tells a story, or shares a detail—receive it. (“Wait—tell me more.” “That’s funny—what happened next?” “I like your sense of humor.”)

5) Share micro-disclosure (no trauma dumping). Give small, warm glimpses of you so you’re memorable. (“I’m lowkey nerdy about ___.” “A perfect Saturday for me looks like…”)

6) Bring spark + standards. Stay warm and clear about intentional dating. (“I date intentionally—what does that mean to you?” “How do you handle conflict when you care?”)

7) Offer a future glimpse (without pressure). Light vision questions signal purpose, not desperation. (“What are you building in your life right now?” “What does a healthy relationship look like day-to-day?”)

8) Keep romantic energy (chemistry without chasing). Be present, playful, and feminine—don’t make it feel like HR. (“Quick question—what’s your most controversial food opinion?” “I can tell you’re competitive… am I right?”)

I break this down in even more detail (see link in bio).

God. Wife. Family. Legacy. “Well Done My Good & Faithful Servant.”This is the goal (and saving the world lol).
02/03/2026

God. Wife. Family. Legacy. “Well Done My Good & Faithful Servant.”

This is the goal (and saving the world lol).

01/23/2026

Comment “favor” so I can send the strategy for how to be findable to attract good men to you.

Why would you allow good men to come off the market because you are waiting for a husband to find you when you could be more findable so her can marry you?

How can he ask you out on a date if he never is in the same room as you? Ijs

Let me@know your thoughts!

01/16/2026

Comment FIND and I’ll send you a complete plan for where to find good men and it’s not the normal places.

However, I need you to do three things:

1) I need you to know the exact qualities you desire in a boyfriend/husband (I need substance beyond how he looks, how tall he is or his money…character traits are what I need.

2) I need you to use your network (connections) to send you a hookup. Why? Good people know good people and super social people know a lot of people. We use connections for everything else….use them for finding your spouse too!

3) Position yourself in places your future husband is likely to be (high character people do high character things- coach, church, business conferences, volunteer, work out, volunteer, etc.)

Also, I am not judging clubs or bars. You can meet a good man anywhere! I am just giving you a different perspective.

01/13/2026

How I Would Find In Wife In Modern Times:

Why am I doing this post? Honestly, because every man I know talks about how hard it is to find a wife and I agree. Here’s my five but I’ll do another video with my honest top strategy later.

1) Go to places where highly quality, high character women are, where I am the minority (very few men).

2) Approach immediately versus wait for another man to steal her attention.

3) Approach with high energy and immediately give compliments with intensity. My wife knows I’m always extra lol.

4) Ask deep questions to see if we vibe and ask follow up questions to show that I know how to be listen and intensify my interest in her. I am also screening for vibe and character too.

5) Ask about my most immediate deal breakers because why waste time if we are not a match (do you go to church, do you read/smart/have a talent, do you smoke - we had too many people pass due to Cancer in my family so this one is more personal than judgmental).

Notice that I did not screen for kids, money or weave. I can work with all of those things. I just want the best woman.

Also, this is not unique to me. Every married or intentional single man in my feed would have a similar energy but with a different style.

Thoughts?

01/09/2026

No one truly understands the pressure of ministry, especially in the public eye, with a national platform and as a First Lady and/or female pastor.

Your wins and gifts are often under-celebrated, seen as intimidating and your community of support is often very small due to trust issues and unrealistic expectations.

I am happy my brother, Pastor Jamal, defended his wife but he shouldn’t have had to. I would love to see more credit be given for her extraordinary talent (she is a while doctor), less scrutiny on what any woman wears especially from men, and more focus on the beautiful blessing of their marriage and ministries.

I prayed and delayed posting this but sometimes our silence as believers can be hurtful when those we love are attacked without compassion, true understanding and void of the empathy that Jesus would have and not have the interpersonal intelligence to respect privacy about what any couples wears unless you are a fashion magazine lol.

They had to pause their ministry work to respond to this foolishness AND we (my wife and I) loved the dress, for the record. What you don’t know is that the dress looks different in person vs the photo but whatever.

I also don’t like men telling women what to wear (especially another pastor commenting on any man’s wife from a pulpit). How is that ever appropriate or respectful and is a double standard.

Love this couple and I defended my friend, Devon, when the church had something to say about his wife at the time being a Hollywood rockstar and dressing accordingly. Love wins over jealousy, hate and judgment every day of the week for 365 days a year.

You are loved, supported and appreciated! Also, I cannot wait to read the supportive comments from those who feel the same or have lead with love and empathy. God Bless!

01/04/2026

Comment “network” and I’ll send you the full video where I show you how to network to meet the man you want without even leaving your home.

Also full video 🔗 is in bio.

Here’s what you should do. Want better men to date who come up to you?

Treat dating like networking for a high level job and apply Proverbs 15:22-

Without consultation and wise advice, plans are frustrated, but with many counselors they are established and succeed.

In application, the more great people you ask to hook you up, the more great people they will introduce you to, especially if you are an amazing woman!

The answer to your dating issue might just simply be, “You have not because you ask not.”

So, just ask and let the great dates roll and I pray they are high character, ambitious, funny and eye candy too lol (hard to fall in love with a man who doesn’t make you double take lol).

01/03/2026

The ability to attract top tier, Godly men without leaving the house is the top request I hear from my friends looking for good men. So, let’s make it happen.

Comment “easily” and I’ll explain all seven ways to do this and they work!

Watch full video here https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vCeydufpO3w

God, just send Him to me and make him find & fall in love with me easily.” Make me findable like in Proverbs 18:22.

First tip is…I need you to master ego stroking and being magnetic by being interested and interesting as soon as you meet an attractive man because the average man gets ignored all week long.

Well, here are the full 7 tips to make that happen.

✅ Network Like a Woman Who Expects Results
Tell trusted friends, mentors, and couples you’re open to meeting a marriage-minded man—quality introductions beat random luck.

✅ Create an Online Attraction Strategy
Use a polished, warm profile that shows confidence, values, and femininity so the right men are drawn to you.

✅ Make Dating a Lifestyle (Not a Rare Event)
Consistent, low-pressure dates build confidence, momentum, and better discernment—without emotional burnout.

✅ Stop Being Unfindable
Position your life so you’re regularly in mixed-gender spaces where high-caliber men actually are.

✅ Go Where Men Naturally Initiate
Attend conferences, leadership events, and professional spaces where confident men approach without games.

✅ Be Magnetic & Emotionally Electric
Men fall in love with how they feel around you—warmth, curiosity, appreciation, and emotional safety create attraction.

✅ Filter Quickly to Protect Your Heart
Pay attention to consistency and character early so you don’t waste time on men who aren’t ready.

12/31/2025

Comment “seven” and I’ll explain each one and I bet you’ll love it and interview is first 🔗 in bio. Here 7 things marriage minded women do to get the man!

1) Active positioning vs passive waiting- ambitious vs lazy approach to allowing that King to flirt with you

2) Clear about intent vs vague about commitment - not wasting time with any man who is not marriage serious now

3) Wise, Biblical standards vs rigid checklist - not 6 feet, 6 figures and 6 pack but great man to look at who is a great guy with high character

4) Character-driven vs chemistry obsessed- Is he a solid, moral King vs a good time

5) Dating Actual Talent vs Potential- Already has treated women in his past in amazing way and is a great catch now vs “social work project” lol

6) Building Relationship Skills Vs Hoping Love Fixes Everything- Making sure you can communicate through conflict before you date vs hoping you can be a good communicator- be impressive ASAP

7) Generously Wooing A Man Off His Feet vs Being Guarded - You stroke his ego so well he hunts you down after the first few dates vs simply observing him.

Let me know your thoughts. Men will eat out of your hands when you really try to be impressive but pick well. Only the best deserve this!

12/31/2025

Can A Good Man Even Find You?

Link in bio for full@interview

It sounds simple but many women forget that the best way to get a date is to be easily “found” by men which is why women who are more social have overwhelmingly more dates than women who are not.

12/31/2025

The Number ONE mistake women make it dating that will make finding a husband impossible. You change this and more men will enter into your life in 2025/2026 and it is totally up to you! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iVZIqvZU5uc

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