Bethany Russell IFS Therapist

01/20/2026

Nothing is TMI in the therapy room! If it’s impacting you - please know you can always share 🖤

01/16/2026

01/14/2026

I’ve been shifting into a new season of self-leadership.
Not the polished version — the gritty, honest, devotional one.

The last two weeks have been a crash course in staying with myself instead of abandoning myself.
Ancestral patterns rising. Boundary violations. Terrible world events.
Expansion colliding with exhaustion.
Parts of me wanting to react, shut down, spiral.

And instead of letting those parts lead, I stayed.
I came back to center.
I led myself.

That’s what sovereignty actually is.
Not being untriggered.
Not having it all figured out.
Just the daily practice of returning to Self when everything in you wants to run.

It’s how I make decisions now.
How I set boundaries before resentment builds.
How I end what isn’t aligned instead of dragging it out.
How I stay self-contained instead of spilling my unprocessed stuff onto everyone around me.

This is the tone of my year:
Devotion over perfection.
Alignment over approval.
Self-leadership as a practice, not a performance.

If this is where you are too, stay close.
The Sovereign Collective opens in one month, and this is the exact medicine we’re going into together. Comment SELF-LED if you want more info. 🖤

Tell me — what does self-leadership look like for YOU this year?

01/10/2026

Most women try to boost their self-respect by forcing discipline.
But the deeper shift happens when you redefine who you are.

One of the most powerful ways to build self-respect is crafting identity statements that anchor the woman you’re becoming.

In 2025, mine was:
“I’m a woman who does what I say I’m going to do.”

No negotiating. No spiraling. No talking myself out of what I already knew.

Just clean follow-through — small, consistent, self-honoring.

And it changed how I related to myself… and how everyone else related to me.

If you want to level up as a woman in 2026, start with the identity you claim.

What’s one statement your future self would stand behind? 🖤

selfrespect

01/01/2026

No resolutions. No pressure. Just a few questions worth sitting with before we cross into 2026. Journal them. Whisper them. Let them find you when you’re ready.

Which one landed? I’d love to know. 🖤

12/30/2025

Intuition isn’t accessed through force. It’s accessed through regulation.

You can’t hear your deepest knowing when your fear is screaming for protection.

You can’t connect with Spirit, guides, or inner wisdom when your body is braced for impact.

Your intuition was never broken — fear was just drowning it out.

That’s why this 10-second check-in works. It’s not about silencing fear or pushing past it. It’s about turning toward it and building a relationship with the part of you that’s trying to protect you. When that part feels seen and safe, it doesn’t have to be so loud. And when fear settles, your clarity finally has room to rise.

This is the real magic:
Safety → intuition → aligned action.

Save this for the next time fear gets loud. 🔖

12/21/2025

One of the most disorienting parts of healing? Realizing that growth doesn’t move in straight lines.

In my own work, I’ve revisited the same wound more times than I can count. The same younger part—a four-year-old girl on the stairs. The same moment in time. The same emotional landscape.

For a long time, I thought that meant I was failing. That I was stuck. That something wasn’t working.

Here’s what I understand now: I wasn’t revisiting because I was broken. I was returning because my system finally had more capacity to be with it (her) than before.

Healing doesn’t erase the past. It expands your ability to relate to it.

Each time an old wound resurfaces, you’re meeting it with a different nervous system. A different level of self-trust. A deeper internal support structure.

This is something I say to clients constantly: recurrence is not regression. It’s usually a sign of readiness.

Readiness to feel what couldn’t be felt before. 
To integrate what was once too much.
To stay present instead of abandoning yourself.

So if something old is knocking right now? You’re not behind. You’re finally resourced enough to go where you couldn’t before.

Send this to someone who needs to hear it. 🖤

12/21/2025

You can be the most capable woman in every room and still feel completely unheld inside.

You can have your s**t together and still be one “are you okay?” away from falling apart.

(Except no one asks — because you’re the one who asks everyone else.)

Here’s what no one tells the strong ones:

You’re not tired because you’re doing too much.

You’re tired because you’ve been leading your entire life from a part of you that was only supposed to be temporary —
the one who took over when no one else showed up.

The one who decided it was safer to need nothing than to need and be disappointed.

That part kept you alive.

But she was never meant to run everything forever.

Sovereignty isn’t about doing more, doing less, or doing it better.

It’s about finally letting the part of you who has been holding it all together… rest.

And letting the real you lead.

Drop and emoji or comment below if you can hard relate 👇🏻

This is the energy we are building toward in 2026.
Stay close. 🖤

12/18/2025

This is where leadership actually starts.
Not in certainty. In presence. 

That pause before you react?
That’s the skill. 🖤