02/25/2026
“I chose this.”
No.
You chose to become a mother.
You didn’t choose perinatal anxiety or postpartum depression.
Choosing motherhood ≠ choosing to suffer through it alone.
When you say “I chose this” to justify why you’re white-knuckling your way through the 4th trimester, what you’re really saying is: “I don’t deserve help because I should have known it would be this hard.”
But that’s not accountability. That’s punishment.
Perinatal anxiety and depression are clinical conditions, not character flaws.
You aren’t failing at motherhood.
Your brain chemistry shifted.
Your nervous system is overwhelmed.
You’re likely sleep-deprived, isolated, and carrying an impossible mental load.
Suffering just because “you chose this” is exactly what keeps you stuck.
You deserve more than survival mode.
You deserve support without shame.
You deserve to feel like yourself again.
Perinatal mood disorders are treatable. But you have to give yourself permission to accept support, Mama.
📞 I offer a free 15-minute intro call for clients in Colorado. 🔗 Link in bio to book your call and get the support you deserve today.
Xo 🌻 Leanne