10/13/2025
Why are we so hard on ourselves? Often, its because we're trying to stay safe.
If we tell ourselves that we always have to do everything right, maybe we can avoid failure. If we call ourselves lazy, maybe we'll push harder.
Our inner critic can be a part of us we hate, fear or desperately wish we could change. Healing doesn't come from silencing that voice, but from listening to it differently—understanding how it is trying to help us and learning to work with it instead of against it. https://ruthweinberg.com/