04/30/2026
Most people think they're bad at meditation.
They're not. The bar was just set wrong.
Here's what actually happens: you sit down, your mind immediately goes to an email from three days ago or something you said at a party in 2017, and some part of you concludes — yep, I knew it. Too much for this.
But according to neuroscientist Dr. Amishi Jha, that wandering mind isn't the problem. It's the whole point.
Her research found that 12 minutes a day — three times a week — is enough to meaningfully train attention, improve mood, and create real changes in brain function. Not an hour. Not perfect silence. Twelve minutes.
And the moment you notice you've wandered? That's not a failure. That catch is literally the practice.
As an IFS therapist, I love this because it means none of your parts are doing it wrong. The anxious one, the planning one, the one already writing tomorrow's grocery list — they're all welcome. You're just learning to witness instead of getting swept away.
I wrote more about what that shift actually looks like — and why it matters.
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Most people think they’re bad at meditation, but the real issue is unrealistic expectations. Learn why your wandering mind is normal and how just 12 minutes a day can actually train attention and improve focus, mood, and sleep.