12/17/2025
The holidays can be especially challenging for children and teens with food and body concerns. Changes in routine, food centered gatherings, and body focused conversations can increase anxiety and distress. Supportive, intentional care can help this season feel safer.
How caregivers and families can help:
🍽 Maintain structure and consistency
Predictable meals and snacks are protective. Try to keep regular timing and avoid skipping meals to “save room” for later.
🛑 Avoid food pressure and negotiations
Encourage completion of planned meals when part of treatment, but avoid bargaining, threats, or emotional responses around eating.
🧠 Limit body and diet talk
Avoid comments about weight, appearance, calories, exercise, or “compensating” after meals (even in joking or self-directed ways).
🗣 Use supportive, neutral language
Focus on nourishment, strength, and healing rather than “healthy vs unhealthy” or “good vs bad” foods.
🎄 Plan ahead for events
Preview menus, bring safe foods if needed, and discuss expectations ahead of time to reduce anxiety.
🤍 Validate distress without reinforcing the disorder
Acknowledge how hard it is while holding boundaries. “I know this feels scary, and I’m here with you.”
⚠️ Watch for warning signs
Increased restriction, food avoidance, rituals, body checking, or mood changes may signal the need for extra support.
✨ If your child is in treatment, stay connected with their care team.
The holidays are not a time to loosen treatment plans without guidance. Support is always available and early intervention matters.