02/20/2026
We’re quick to label coping as weakness.
But most coping behaviors start as protection.
Many people don’t use substances to “escape life.”
They use them to survive it.
And when survival strategies turn into patterns, shame steps in.
Shame doesn’t heal. It isolates.
If this feels familiar, you’re not broken.
You adapted the best way you knew how.
Healing doesn’t begin with blame.
It begins with safety.
If this shifted something for you, save it.
If you know someone carrying quiet shame, share it.
Support exists and it doesn’t start with judgment.