Rewire Trauma Therapy

12/13/2025

💛 Understanding Trauma Bonds

Trauma bonds form when a relationship cycles between harm and moments of warmth or affection. This emotional whiplash creates a powerful attachment that is rooted not in love, but in survival.

When care and cruelty are intertwined, the nervous system becomes confused. The brain clings to the brief moments of safety, hoping they will return, while enduring the pain in between. Over time, this can lead to:
A deep sense of dependency
Self-doubt and low self-worth
Fear of leaving, even when the relationship is unsafe

💛 If you’ve ever felt stuck in a relationship like this, it is not your fault.

These patterns form because your brain and body are trying to protect you in overwhelming or unpredictable situations.

🌱 Healing begins with awareness.

Recognizing the pattern, reaching out for support, and reconnecting with your own inner safety are powerful first steps. With time, you can rebuild trust in yourself and create relationships that feel stable, respectful, and nourishing.

You deserve connections that support your nervous system — not ones that destabilize it. 🤍

12/11/2025

🌿 Taking Stock: Habits That Quietly Drain Our Mental Well-Being

As the year winds down, it’s natural to feel stretched thin. Sometimes, without realizing it, we fall into habits that slowly diminish our mental clarity and emotional resilience.
This festive season is a beautiful time to pause, reflect, and gently notice where we can create more balance.

Here are a few patterns to bring awareness to 🌱
1️⃣ Skipping Sleep
Rest is not laziness — it’s repair. Chronic lack of sleep can impair memory, focus, and emotional regulation.
2️⃣ Neglecting Nutrition
Our brains rely on nourishment. Too much processed food or sugar can lead to brain fog and mood swings.
3️⃣ Sedentary Days
Long hours sitting or scrolling can lower energy and dull mental alertness. Gentle movement supports blood flow and stress release.
4️⃣ Constant Screen Time
Endless stimulation can overstimulate your nervous system, disrupt sleep, and heighten anxiety.
5️⃣ Ignoring Stress Signals
When we push through stress instead of tending to it, it accumulates — affecting focus, emotion, and even physical health.
6️⃣ Lack of Mindfulness
Multitasking can pull us out of presence. Grounding practices help bring the mind back to the body — where healing happens.

✨ Small shifts create meaningful change. Prioritize rest, nourishment, and presence. Your mind — and body — will thank you.

12/10/2025

Trauma responses like fight, flight, freeze, and fawn are not character flaws — they are instinctive survival patterns your nervous system learned to keep you safe.

Understanding them can help you meet yourself with more compassion:
✨ Fight — reacting with anger, defensiveness, or confrontation when your system senses danger.
✨ Flight — feeling the urge to escape, avoid, or outrun overwhelm.
✨ Freeze — shutting down, going numb, or becoming unable to act when things feel too much.
✨ Fawn — people-pleasing and over-accommodating to stay safe or keep the peace.

These patterns often stay with us long after the threat has passed. Not because we are broken — but because our bodies have not yet learned how to come down from survival mode.

💛 This is where somatic therapy and vagal toning become powerful tools.

They help regulate the nervous system, release stored trauma, and gently guide you back into safety, connection, and balance.

If these responses feel familiar to you, we’ve created a healing bundle designed to support this exact journey — combining our most effective somatic and trauma-therapy programs.

✨ Explore the Holiday Healing Bundle here:
https://www.rewiretraumatherapy.com/black-friday-2025

12/09/2025

So many women grew up believing that being nice, easy, and undemanding made them “good.”
But for many, this wasn’t a personality trait… it was a nervous system survival pattern.

This is called the fawn response — when your body tries to stay safe by people-pleasing, avoiding conflict, and making yourself as unthreatening as possible.

✨ It often develops when:
• expressing needs wasn’t allowed
• love was conditional
• anger or conflict led to danger
• you had to manage others’ emotions to stay safe

If this pattern shows up in adulthood — saying yes when you mean no, freezing in conflict, apologizing for everything — remember:

👉 Your body learned this to protect you.

Not to punish you.

And the beautiful thing?

Fawning can be unlearned.

Your nervous system can learn safety that doesn’t require shrinking.
If this speaks to you, you’re not alone.

Your healing is valid, brave, and deeply possible. 💛

Tap the link to explore our free Fawn Response exercise, a gentle, trauma-informed step toward safety, self-honouring & nervous-system freedom.
https://www.rewiretraumatherapy.com/pl/2147815334

12/08/2025

In a world that demands productivity, hustle, perfection — choosing rest can feel radical.

This week, I invite you to check in:
• How is your body feeling?
• Where does your nervous system need ease?
• When was the last time you paused — just to breathe?

Womanhood isn’t proof of how much you can do… it’s proof of what you can survive, unlearn, and rebuild.

Give yourself permission to slow down. To soften. To rest. To heal. 💛

12/07/2025

Just because you can push through doesn’t mean you should.

🌱 Be gentle with yourself today.
🧠 Your nervous system is doing the best it can.
💛 You’re allowed to rest, pause, and nourish your mind.

Kindness to yourself is not weakness — it’s a radical act of care.

12/06/2025

Feeling overwhelmed? You're not alone.
Anxiety can show up in our bodies in so many ways — tight chest, racing thoughts, trouble sleeping, constant worry.
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🌱 Try one of these gentle, nervous-system-friendly tips today:
✔️ Slow, deep breathing
✔️ Nourishing your body with real food
✔️ Movement or stretching
✔️ Creative time (art, music, writing)
✔️ Reaching out to a safe person
✔️ Writing things down — even one small task
✔️ Prioritizing rest & sleep
You don’t have to fix everything at once. Small steps count. 💛
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✨ Be kind to your mind — especially on the hard days.
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12/05/2025

🧬 Breaking Generational Cycles: An Act of Love & Awareness

Many of the behaviors we now call “trauma responses” once helped our ancestors survive.
Hypervigilance. Emotional shutdown. People-pleasing. Rage. Silence.

These weren’t personal flaws — they were protective strategies shaped by history, war, colonization, disconnection, and deep grief.

But survival mode isn't meant to be a lifelong state.

When we begin to notice these patterns, to name them, feel them, and gently shift them — we don’t just heal ourselves. We heal the generations before us and protect the ones still to come.

This is what it means to be a cycle breaker.
To say: “This pain stops with me.”
To choose nervous system repair over reactivity.
To choose boundaries over burnout.
To choose softness where there was once shutdown.
It doesn’t mean perfection. It means presence.

💭 Let this land gently: The triggers you feel may not even originate with you, but the healing you’re doing is yours. And it matters.

You are the medicine your lineage has been waiting for.

12/04/2025

If you’ve been thinking about joining one of our bundles, today is the final day they’re available.
We created these offers for the people who want support through this season in a way that feels grounded, somatic and safe:

💛 The Regulate & Restore Bundle — 93% off
For those wanting nervous-system tools, embodiment, movement and trauma-informed practices they can use at home.

🤍 The Trauma Therapy Bundle — Buy 1 • Gift 1
So you can begin the healing journey with someone you care about.

No extra cost. No pressure. Just shared support.
There is no rush to decide and no expectation to join.

This is simply an invitation if you’ve been feeling called to step into the next stage of your healing, or share it with a friend.

The offers close tonight.
We’d love to have you with us if it feels aligned for your nervous system, your pace and your wellbeing.

Link below 💛

Gain lifetime access to 22 expert-led trauma therapy programs that help you regulate your nervous system, reconnect with your body, and transform stored trauma into resilience.

12/03/2025

There is power in beginning your day inside your body. Before the noise, the world, the expectations, and the stories.

Somatic practice is one of the most profound ways women reconnect with strength, intuition, and self-leadership.

This is a reminder our final day of accessible healing bundles is approaching.

If you want guidance with somatic and embodiment practices, the Regulate & Restore bundle is open until tomorrow ❤

Access to bundles in the link below ✨
https://www.rewiretraumatherapy.com/black-friday-2025

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12/02/2025

Everywhere you look this season, the message is the same:
Be grateful. Be happy. Be excited.

But for many people, the holidays activate very different emotions: grief, loneliness, financial strain, reminders of difficult relationships, pressure to show up as if everything is fine.

A trigger we don’t talk about enough:
“Why can’t I feel what everyone else seems to be feeling?”

When you’ve lived through trauma, your body doesn’t respond on command.

You don’t have to dress your pain in cheer.
You don’t have to apologize for feeling differently.
You don’t have to perform joy.

Your nervous system is allowed to have its own truth.

If the holidays bring up mixed emotions, that doesn’t mean you’re broken. It means your body is honest.

Drop an emoji below is this resonates with you. We are here for you. ❤

12/01/2025

During the holidays, women often carry more than anyone realizes ✨

Behind the celebrations and planning can sit a lot of invisible weight, the expectations, the emotional labour, the pressure to hold everything together.

These aren’t just mental experiences.
They show up in the body too:
tension, fatigue, shutdown, over-functioning, people-pleasing, anxiety, or feeling “switched off.”

Your body isn’t wrong for responding this way.
It’s communicating that it needs something different.

This season, you don’t have to push through or do more to cope.

Rest and regulation are part of the healing process and they’re allowed to take up space.

If you’re ready for tools that support your nervous system in a grounded and accessible way, our Regulate & Restore Bundle is $99 until Dec 4.

Inside, you’ll find:
✨ Vagal Toning
✨ Somatic Therapies
✨ Qigong for Healing Trauma
✨ Martial Arts
✨ Psychedelic-Assisted Therapy
✨ Healing Chronic Fear

No urgency.
Not pressure.

Just support for the moments when the system needs a different kind of care.

🤍 Explore the bundle: https://www.rewiretraumatherapy.com/black-friday-2025

Or message us with questions, we’re here to help.