04/20/2026
Here’s How to say ‘No’ to a bl***ob -
For people-pleasers and our fawn response.
(Surprise plot twist ☕️)
The hardest VS the easiest way to say ‘No’ 🤗
Plus, Quick s*xual health fact most people don’t know…
For gonorrhea:
The risk actually changes depending on the type of oral s*x…
Oral on a man (p***s to the back of the throat): about a 20–40% risk of throat infection.
Oral on a woman (tongue on v***a): about a 5–10% risk.
That’s because the bacteria can reach deeper into the throat more easily during fe****io.
Most throat infections have no symptoms — so you can have it and not know.
BUT — this is specific to gonorrhea.
OTHER STIs like:
• Herpes (HSV)
• HPV
• Syphilis
Are high risk both directions during oral s*x.
So no — oral s*x isn’t “safe,” it’s just different depending on the infection.
Get tested properly — including throat swabs.
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Oral s*x isn’t equal depending on the STI 👀