02/18/2026
Many people ask me what exactly I do each day as a postpartum doula when I start to work with a new family that has just had a baby.
When I first arrive, I spend some time checking in with mom to see what questions have come up since we last spoke, hear how the night went, etc. Then I set up her to snuggle with baby while I fetch her a fresh glass of water and a meal or snack. I’ll also throw in a load of laundry at this point to get that going.
Then, I ask mom what she needs most that day.
The answers are usually either sleep, shower, or get out of the house.
Based on what she is most needing, we take it from there.
If it is time for the baby to eat, I can help with assessing baby’s latch and any other concerns or just continue to chat with mom.
Sometimes a new mom is feeling overwhelmed by visitors and company or household chores and just wants some quiet time alone with her baby. So I’ll tuck her into bed with her baby, make sure she has water, a healthy snack, her phone, etc.
Then I’m off to tidy up the house, wash the dishes, empty the dishwasher, and fold the laundry. It’s amazing how much laundry one little baby can create!
Learn more about a typical postpartum doula shift here:
https://doverdoula.com/typical-doula-shift
photos by TARA Photography