07/20/2020
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When traumatised people get triggered, our body and mind is no longer reacting to what is happening in front of us. We are responding to things that remind us of the past, as if they are happening now.
The cues that trigger us happen so quickly we are not aware of them in real time and we do not have the ability to interpret them for what they are, triggers.
Our body reacts and in turn we behave in a way that we find embarrassing. This leads to feelings of shame and disappointment in letting ourselves down and also letting down those we love and who love us.
We decide that the solution is to avoid people and reduce the risk of further embarrassment and shame.
Healing through therapy would involve learning to calm our bodies and staying in the present moment when we are around others. So when triggers do present, we can respond to what is actually in front of us.