11/03/2025
Life has a way of surprising usâsometimes in ways we donât expect. If you asked me a year ago where Iâd be today, I would have imagined a very different path. What I couldnât foresee was how deeply I would be testedâand how those challenges would reveal a strength I didnât know I had.
2024 brought wave after wave of hardship. My sisterâs sudden passing left my family in grief. My husband faced months of job loss, and my business took a major hit when I had to close our Decatur officeâa space built with years of blood, sweat, and tears. My college-aged sons were struggling, and by yearâs end, I felt like I was failing on all frontsâprofessionally and personally.
By January, things began to shift. My husband found a new job, and I started running again. But then my body broke under meâa second stress fracture while training for the Publix Half Marathon sidelined me. Exercise had always been my therapy, and being unable to run triggered depression. Around the same time, my daughter became the victim of relentless bullying, which brought back memories of my own struggles with insecurity. It was one of the darkest periods of my life.
But darkness doesnât last forever.
I intentionally began to rebuildâjoining a tennis team, a book club, Leadership Perimeter, and my neighborhood Home & Garden Club. I leaned on friends who had overcome challenges and began showing up authentically. Slowly, the heaviness lifted. My energy shifted from survival to gratitude, and joy returned through connection, purpose, and community.
As my own light grew, so did everything around me: my parents found strength through honoring my sisterâs memory, my husband thrived in his new role, my boys took ownership of their education, my daughter emerged resilient and confident, and I healedâphysically, emotionally, and spiritually.
Then came a truly unexpected honor: I was awarded the 2025 Women of Distinction by the Greater Perimeter Chamber of Commerce. Sharing my story on stage with broadcasting legend Monica Kaufman Pearson was unforgettable, especially with my daughter, husband and parents watching.
I share this story not for applause, but for encouragement. If youâre in a hard season, hold on. There is another side. The hardest years can shape you into exactly who youâre meant to beâand in rising, you inspire others along the way.
Hereâs to finding the light, even when it feels far away. đ