11/14/2025
A grief that began before you even had words for loss?
I recently sat down with And How Does That Make You Feel?™ to talk about The Original Grief — the framework I developed to help people uncover the first loss that shaped how they love, cope, and connect.
In my Original Grief Intensives and workshops, I guide clients into the deeper layers of healing — not the grief that follows death, but the grief that comes from emotional neglect, unmet needs, and early attachment wounds. These are the silent sorrows that live beneath the surface, shaping our relationships, our sense of safety, and the way we show up in the world.
Every unspoken sadness carries a map back to that original loss. When we name what’s been buried, we begin to feel what we once had to suppress — and that’s where healing truly begins.
In this conversation, we explore how this grief shows up in our bodies and relationships, how it fuels codependency, self-protection, perfectionism, or emotional shutdown — and how reparenting ourselves allows us to transform pain into presence.
Listen now at: youtube.com/watch?time_continue=1&v=miGqgZZwb_A&embeds_referring_euri=https%3A%2F%2Fqueencityhealthysexandrelationships.com%2F&source_ve_path=MzY4NDIsMjM4NTE
