Dengler, Roberts, Perna Funeral Home

Dengler, Roberts, Perna Funeral Home Dengler, Roberts, Perna Funeral Home has provided funeral and cremation services to East Amherst and western New York communities for generations

02/18/2026
Losing a loved one brings a cascade of emotions, but it also brings a series of important tasks. Among the most essentia...
02/17/2026

Losing a loved one brings a cascade of emotions, but it also brings a series of important tasks. Among the most essential is notifying financial institutions and government agencies to settle matters on behalf of the deceased. While this process can feel overwhelming, taking it step by step—with compassion for yourself and others—can bring clarity during such a challenging time.

This guide provides thoughtful steps for managing accounts, preventing identity theft, and ensuring benefits are properly addressed. With gentle advice on handling tasks like contacting banks, notifying the IRS, and more, it offers a sense of direction while honoring your loved one's legacy.

Read more:
Notifying Banks & the Government When Someone Dies
https://www.dignitymemorial.com/support-friends-and-family/debt-documents-after-death

When death is imminent, life can feel both heavy and deeply meaningful. This thoughtful article by Drs. Charles and Donn...
02/16/2026

When death is imminent, life can feel both heavy and deeply meaningful. This thoughtful article by Drs. Charles and Donna Corr reminds us that even in the face of life-limiting illness, there is still room for choice, connection, and love. You are not defined by your diagnosis—you are still living, still loving, and still able to shape each day with intention.

From finding meaning and addressing unfinished business to understanding hospice care and preparing loved ones, this guide offers compassionate insight for those facing the end of life and for the families who walk beside them. It gently encourages us to “make today count” by living fully, honestly, and with love.

Read more:
https://www.dignitymemorial.com/pre-planning/planning-your-funeral/living-while-your-death-is-imminent

On a day centered around love, we pause to honor those who are grieving the loss of someone dear. Valentine’s Day can be...
02/14/2026

On a day centered around love, we pause to honor those who are grieving the loss of someone dear. Valentine’s Day can be especially difficult when a loved one is no longer here to share it. Please know that you are not forgotten—you are held in our thoughts and hearts today.

💙 A gentle reminder: Grief has no timeline. It’s normal for waves of sadness to resurface on meaningful days, and acknowledging those feelings is an important part of healing.

From all of us on our staff, please accept our heartfelt condolences. We appreciate you, we honor your loss, and we’re sending comfort and compassion your way.

Cemeteries are designed as permanent places of remembrance. They provide families with a dedicated space to visit, refle...
02/13/2026

Cemeteries are designed as permanent places of remembrance. They provide families with a dedicated space to visit, reflect, and maintain a lasting connection to loved ones, often serving as historical and community landmarks as well.

The digital footprint of a loved one can live on long after they’ve passed. Managing their online accounts thoughtfully ...
02/11/2026

The digital footprint of a loved one can live on long after they’ve passed. Managing their online accounts thoughtfully is an essential part of honoring their memory while respecting their privacy. Whether it’s a phone, social media account, or cloud storage, handling these accounts with care ensures that their legacy is preserved—or closed with dignity.

This guide offers practical advice on how to manage or close online accounts after the death of a loved one, ensuring that their digital life is respected and properly handled.

Read more: Closing Online Accounts After the Death of a Loved One
https://www.dignitymemorial.com/support-friends-and-family/digital-footprint-after-death

The loss of a loved one is a difficult experience for everyone, including children. Attending a funeral can be a vital p...
02/09/2026

The loss of a loved one is a difficult experience for everyone, including children. Attending a funeral can be a vital part of their grief journey, offering them a chance to honor and say goodbye. With patience, sensitivity, and clear communication, parents can help guide their children through this emotional process, allowing them to experience the love and support of family during such a difficult time.

This compassionate guide provides helpful advice on how to prepare children for a funeral based on their age and emotional development. By being honest, supportive, and present, you can ensure that your child feels safe and loved as they navigate their grief.

Read more: Helping Children Through Funerals: A Compassionate Guide for Parents
https://www.dignitymemorial.com/grief-and-sympathy/losing-a-loved-one/helping-children-through-funerals

When a loved one is diagnosed with cancer, the right words can provide comfort and reassurance, even in the most difficu...
02/08/2026

When a loved one is diagnosed with cancer, the right words can provide comfort and reassurance, even in the most difficult times. While it can be hard to find the perfect thing to say, your empathy and presence can make all the difference. Dr. Charles A. Corr offers practical advice on how to speak to someone with cancer—whether they're newly diagnosed or undergoing treatment—and how to provide emotional support without unintentionally adding pressure.

This article offers heartfelt suggestions on what to say, what not to say, and how to be there for your loved one during this challenging journey.

💛 Let’s show those battling cancer the love and strength they need.

Read more: Encouraging Words for Those Living With Cancer
https://www.dignitymemorial.com/grief-and-sympathy/showing-support/words-for-those-battling-cancer

When someone you love is facing a terminal illness, the grief can begin long before the final loss. Anticipatory grief i...
02/07/2026

When someone you love is facing a terminal illness, the grief can begin long before the final loss. Anticipatory grief is the emotional response to the gradual changes that come with illness, and it affects both the one who is ill and those who care for them. Dr. Charles A. Corr shares deep insights on how to manage the overwhelming emotions of love, loss, and caregiving during this difficult time.

This article offers guidance on how to care for both your loved one and yourself, covering the emotional, physical, social, and spiritual dimensions of end-of-life care. It also provides tools for finding strength in moments of profound sadness and creating meaningful, loving memories in the final days.

💔 If you're navigating the grief of a loved one’s illness, you're not alone. You can find support and comfort during this challenging time.

Read more: Helping Yourself When Someone You L https://www.dignitymemorial.com/grief-and-sympathy/losing-a-loved-one/helping-yourself-when-someone-you-love-is-dying

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