10/31/2025
Obituary Details for Emily Kosty Marchak
Emily Kosty Marchak passed away peacefully on Wednesday, October 29th, 2025 surrounded by her loving family. She was 95 years of age.
She was born to Emilia Dacko and Stephan Fabiankovits, September 27th, 1930 in New York, New York.
Her Mom passed at 28 yrs old in 1934, leaving 3 young children. Her Dad, Stephan was remarried to Theresia Radakovitz, who cared and loved her and her two brothers. She grew up in NY and graduated Julia Richmond HS, majoring in business. After working in the business world for a while, she met and married Emery Kosty, in St Josephs Church in NY, on June 30, 1951. They moved to Rahway, NJ, to raise a family, of 13 children. In 1963, they bought their 1st home in East Brunswick, where she lived for the next 20 years.
Emery/Dad passed on, Mom remarried in September 1982, to Casmir Marchak, then moving to Iselin for 30 years, adding 3 more grown children to the family. Cas had passed on, and Mom moved to an apartment in Monroe, and after about nine years, moved to Manalapan, assisted living, where she lived the rest of years. Emily/Mom was known for her loving kindness, compassion and always available to lend a helping hand. We grew up in a Cape Cod home, (15 people), one bathroom and real diapers. We didn’t need company, we were the company. However, everyone congregated at our home. Mom always had an extra plate and an extra seat at the table for any of the kids in the neighborhood, even though we ate in two shifts ourselves. She had a passion for cooking and baking. It was everything to her. Mom was always at the stove, hours. We always had full meals on the table every night. It was important to her, that we all eat together at a certain time for dinner. It was a time we all could be together, connected, sharing and bonding. Even when we were older and moved out, it was tradition for all of us to gather at mom’s for the holiday celebrations. She knew the importance of family and mealtimes. She devoted herself to taking care of her family. She was dedicated to serving us all with abounding love, and in return she took great joy in everyone enjoying the fruits of her labor. An open door, a huge heart, patience, love and sacrifice beyond measure, a beautiful soul, that was our Mom.
She was predeceased by Emery Kosty and Casmir Marchak, husbands, brothers Steve and Joseph Fabian, Emelia, Theresia and Stephan Fabian, parents.
She is survived by her loving family: Children: Diane Robicheau, Freehold, Carol Schmidt, Whiting, James Kosty, Cheryl, (deceased), Sayreville, Patricia Apgar, William (deceased), Sayreville, Thomas Kosty, Highlands, (deceased), Emily Kosty, Tom, Albuquerque, NM, Sonya Marie Botnick, Edward, (deceased) Whiting, Steven Kosty, Manalapan, Gary Kosty, Barnegat, Dennis Kosty, Anne, Somerset, Daniel Kosty, Michele, Meshoppen, PA, Richard Kosty, Claudia, Plano, Tx, Michael Kosty, Jean, San Diego, CA, June Currin, Old Bridge, Charles Marchak, Linda, (Laura), Jackson, Patricia Marchak, (deceased), Sandy Dutka/Peterson, adoptive daughter, Colonia.
Grandchildren: James Robicheau, Jenn, Brianne Johnson, Miguel, Tonja Schmidt, Brad, Crystal Schmidt, Fawn Nocera, Andrew, Jennifer Kosty, Rob, Wade Kosty, Sara, William Apgar, (deceased), April Planck, Matthew, Anthony Bifano, Kristine Moss, Chris, Melanie Mattaliano, Jared Botnick, Hope Sabo, Serge, Taylor Kosty, Celia, Cassie Gonzalez, Ron, Benjamin Kosty, Lucy Kosty, Daniel Jr Kosty, Savanah, Nicholas Kosty, Scott Currin, Brenda, Amy McCann, Scott, Craig Marchak,
Great and Great, Great Grandchildren: Paige Johnson, RJ, Dominic, Anthony, Rayven, Kayla, Rocco, Jaylin, Julia, Floyd, Allie, Sophia, Peter, Maverick, Reed, Ruby Drew, Jolie Ray, Charlie, Autumn and Raquel.
**In Lieu of flowers, a donation to St Jude’s would be most appreciated, as this organization was close to Mom’s heart, especially because it helped so many children.
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