11/07/2025
We lost someone very dear to us this week-
my husband’s best friend, Chris.
My good friend for over 20 years.
A friendship that spanned decades…
from childhood shenanigans and garage band dreams
to adult life, laughter, and all the chaos in between.
Losing a life like this so soon reminds you how fragile it all is…
how the people you love can be here one moment,
woven into every memory,
and gone the next.
As a medium, I know the soul continues.
I know love doesn’t end.
But as a human…
as a wife watching her husband’s heart break,
as a friend remembering the laughter,
I also know that knowing doesn’t take away the ache.
Grief is both worlds crashing together
the one where you understand the eternal,
and the one where you just miss their presence.
It’s where spirit meets reality
and you remember that being human means feeling it all.
So if you’re walking through grief right now…
don’t rush your healing because of what you “know.”
You can believe in Heaven
and still cry on the floor.
You can sense their soul around you
and still wish they were sitting across the table.
Both are true.
Both are holy.
Hold your people close.
Say the things.
Love loudly.
Love is the only thing that truly stays🤍