02/05/2026
A lot of people think boundaries are about saying no to others, but most of the real work is about learning when to say no to yourself. No to overcommitting. No to explaining when it’s not necessary. No to pushing through exhaustion just to meet an expectation that no longer fits.
This isn’t about becoming rigid or unavailable. It’s about becoming honest. When you ignore your limits long enough, your body eventually enforces them for you, usually in ways that feel a lot harder.
Healthy boundaries are preventative care. They protect your energy before burnout ever shows up.
What’s one place you already know you need a firmer boundary?