Laing Funeral Home

11/05/2025

“The nation owes a great debt to its veterans, whose service to the nation spans every decade, every year, every day of our country’s existence. Through untold courage and sacrifice, America’s veterans have secured the liberty which the founding fathers sought to establish here in the new world. Whenever and wherever the nation has called-- in times of darkness and danger as well as in times of peace and prosperity-- America’s veterans have been there. Veterans have proudly carried the torch of liberty for all to see.”-- Colin Powell





On November 11, think of the thousands of individuals who have answered the call of service to this country and give thanks for their selflessness. They might be friends or relatives or unknown to you, but all have risked their lives for our free dom. It is not a trivial thing. They have put their personal lives on hold to serve our nation and we owe them a debt of gratitude that is without measure. Remember those who have served this Veterans Day.

11/04/2025

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SHAFFER- David E. age 88, of Hamburg, NY died November 2, 2025. Devoted husband of Helen M. “Tookie” (McLeod). Loving father of Susan (Timothy) Sessanna, Wendy (Tim) McCool, David (Audrey) Shaffer and Eric (Tammy) Shaffer. Grandfather of 13, great grandfather of 8. Brother of the late Betty (Car...

11/03/2025

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Michael L. Kawaler, Jr. of Eden, New York died unexpectedly on November 2, 2025 at the age of 58. He was the son of the late Michael and Jeannette Kawaler. Devoted husband of Wendy (nee: Kester). Loving brother of Debbie Kawaler, Lynn Kawaler and Laurie (James) Bitten. Uncle to Jeremy and Autumn Bit...

10/24/2025

CONGRATULATIONS to Weidner BBQ and Kevin Karstedt. Both are deserving of these awards!

10/13/2025

“Be not disturbed at being misunderstood, be disturbed rather at not being understanding.” -- Chinese Proverb

It is not always easy to understand another person — his thoughts, his actions, his beliefs may not agree with yours. In fact, the actions, emotions and thoughts of others can often leave us confused and baffled.

Even if we can’t understand, wouldn’t it be a good idea to try not to judge too quickly? We need to remember that no two human beings are alike in their thoughts and emotions; no two human beings are molded by exactly the same experiences. We need to try to understand and learn as much as possible about the feelings and point of view of the other person.

It’s not an easy thing to do, but attempting to understand can prevent differences in viewpoint from becoming needlessly distorted. At the very least, it is a worthy start toward understanding and worth the effort.

10/07/2025

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Peter James Hatch, age 75, of Williamsville, New York, formerly of Eden, New York, died October 3, 2025. He was born on December 24, 1949 in Pittsfield, Massachusetts to the late George P. and Pauline E. (Williams) Hatch. Peter is survived by his brother Paul (Karen) Hatch and his twin sister Pamela...

10/07/2025

“God gave you a gift of 86,400 seconds today. Have you used one to say ‘thank you’?”
--William A. Ward

It only takes a second to say, but its effects could last a lifetime. Is there someone who has made an impact on your life but you’ve never let them know about it? Did someone call you just to say ‘hello’ when things weren’t going right for you?

Expressing gratitude to friends and family are among the most important things we can do. It’s never too late to acknowledge what a difference their acts or help have made for you. Think of all that you have been given in this life. Expressing thanks to God for His many gifts to us becomes a source of prayer that has immense power.

Use one or more of those wonderful seconds that have been given to each of us, each day, and say “thank you” to the precious people who have touched our lives-- and to God as well.

10/01/2025

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John R. Sickau, age 61, of Eden, New York died September 29, 2025. He was born October 27, 1963 to the late Richard C. and Shelia J. Sickau. John married the former Barbie A. Flynn. He was the devoted father of Danielle N. Flynn, Catlin M. (Tyler) Gallman, Zachary T. Sickau and John R. (Jiyoung) Sic...

09/29/2025

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Patricia M. Bickel (Pat) of Boston, NY lost her brave fight with Cancer, September 29, 2025. Pat was the cherished daughter of the late Leo & Lucille Kornacki of East Eden, NY. Pat is survived by her loving siblings Sharon (late John) Davy; Deborah Bellian, Vicki (William) Artis; Barry Kornacki, Mar...

09/28/2025

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Ashbel L. Musselman Jr. of Eden, New York, passed away on September 26, 2025, at the age of 90. He was born on August 4, 1935, in Slatington, Pennsylvania to the late Ashbel and Bertha (Weber) Musselman. Ashbel served his country in the United States Army, 24th Infantry Division, in the Korean War.....

09/26/2025

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Charlotte A. Dylon (nee: Renschler), age 89, of Eden, New York died September 25, 2025. She was the daughter of the late Henry and Pauline Renschler. Charlotte was a lifelong resident of Eden. She graduated from Eden in 1953. She will be remembered for her selflessness. She volunteered for many year...