02/19/2026
Releasing the past doesn’t mean you are saying it didn’t matter.
It doesn’t mean you’re excusing it, minimizing it, or pretending it didn’t shape you.
Sometimes release simply means this:
I don’t want this pain running my nervous system anymore.
You can honor what happened and choose to loosen its grip.
You can remember without reliving.
You can carry the wisdom without carrying the weight.
If this feels tender, try validating yourself in small, body-based ways:
• Place a hand on your chest or the back of your neck and gently say: “Of course this hurt. It makes sense that it affected me.”
• Let your body discharge safely shake out your hands, press your feet into the ground, or take one long slow exhale longer than your inhale.
• Rock slightly side to side or give yourself a firm hug this tells your nervous system you are supported now, not back then.
Healing isn’t forgetting.
It’s remembering from a place where your body finally knows:
I survived. I am here. And I don’t have to hold this so tightly anymore.