01/19/2026
Releasing the Pressure to Be “Back to Normal”
There’s a quiet kind of pressure that shows up after hard seasons.
It’s the sense that you should be further along by now. That you should recognize yourself again. That whatever changed should have settled back into place.
But not everything that alters us is meant to reverse.
Some experiences reshape how we move through the world — how we listen, how we pace ourselves, how we carry what matters. That doesn’t mean something went wrong. It means something real happened.
If “normal” feels distant, you don’t need to chase it. You’re allowed to live from where you are now, even if that place still feels unfamiliar.
Sometimes peace comes not from returning, but from allowing.