Pier 34 Foundation

Pier 34 Foundation Pier 34 is a non profit organization focused on providing mental health education to the public and professionals.

Releasing the Pressure to Be “Back to Normal” There’s a quiet kind of pressure that shows up after hard seasons.It’s the...
01/19/2026

Releasing the Pressure to Be “Back to Normal”

There’s a quiet kind of pressure that shows up after hard seasons.

It’s the sense that you should be further along by now. That you should recognize yourself again. That whatever changed should have settled back into place.

But not everything that alters us is meant to reverse.

Some experiences reshape how we move through the world — how we listen, how we pace ourselves, how we carry what matters. That doesn’t mean something went wrong. It means something real happened.

If “normal” feels distant, you don’t need to chase it. You’re allowed to live from where you are now, even if that place still feels unfamiliar.

Sometimes peace comes not from returning, but from allowing.

Identity When You Can’t “Show Up Like You Used To”It can be disorienting when your capacity changes.The roles you once f...
01/16/2026

Identity When You Can’t “Show Up Like You Used To”

It can be disorienting when your capacity changes.

The roles you once filled easily feel heavier now. The ways you defined yourself — by productivity, availability, strength — don’t fit the same way. And that shift can feel unsettling, even frightening.

But identity isn’t only revealed when we’re functioning at full strength. Sometimes it’s clarified in the quieter seasons — when energy is limited and presence looks different.

You are not disappearing because your pace has changed. You are adapting. And that process deserves patience, not panic.

When Motivation Is Low, But You Still Care There’s a difference between not caring and not having capacity.You can still...
01/14/2026

When Motivation Is Low, But You Still Care

There’s a difference between not caring and not having capacity.

You can still want to show up, still feel invested, still care deeply — and yet find that your energy doesn’t stretch the way it once did. That disconnect can be confusing, especially if you’re used to pushing through.

This isn’t about losing drive or discipline. It’s about learning what your limits are now, not who you were in a different season.

Paying attention to capacity isn’t giving up. It’s choosing honesty over pressure — and that’s often where real steadiness begins.

A Soft Place to LandSome weeks don’t ask us to rebuild or figure things out.They ask us to land.If you’re coming into th...
01/12/2026

A Soft Place to Land

Some weeks don’t ask us to rebuild or figure things out.

They ask us to land.

If you’re coming into this week tired, unsure, or emotionally tender, you don’t need a plan or a strong outlook. You don’t need to know what’s next. You’re allowed to move gently and let today be enough.

Pier 34 exists for moments like this — when what you need most is permission to slow down and be held in a little more kindness.

If you’re looking for a soft place to land, you’re welcome here.

Burnout vs. LazinessIt’s easy to look at low energy and assume something is wrong with us.We tell ourselves we should be...
01/09/2026

Burnout vs. Laziness

It’s easy to look at low energy and assume something is wrong with us.

We tell ourselves we should be trying harder, doing more, pushing through — especially this time of year. But burnout doesn’t look like indifference. More often, it looks like caring deeply while having very little left to give.

When the nervous system has been under strain for a long time, rest isn’t a reward — it’s a need. Slowing down isn’t giving up. It’s listening.

If you’ve been calling yourself lazy when you’re actually worn down, this is your reminder: needing rest is not a character flaw. It’s a signal. And it deserves care, not criticism.

Sometimes the weight doesn’t come during the holidays. It comes after.When the gatherings end and the noise fades, there...
01/07/2026

Sometimes the weight doesn’t come during the holidays. It comes after.

When the gatherings end and the noise fades, there’s room to feel what didn’t fit before — the tiredness, the sadness, the things you held together because you had to. That kind of heaviness can be unsettling, especially when you expected relief instead.

If January feels heavier than December did, you’re not failing at moving forward. Often, it’s just the moment when your body and heart finally realize they’re allowed to rest.

At Pier 34, we believe this quiet landing matters. You don’t have to push past it or explain it away. Sometimes the most honest place to begin is simply noticing where you are.

As we step into a new year, we’re entering January gently.This month at Pier 34 won’t be about pressure or quick fixes. ...
01/05/2026

As we step into a new year, we’re entering January gently.

This month at Pier 34 won’t be about pressure or quick fixes. It will be about rest, identity, healing, and care that honors where you truly are — not where you think you should be.

If you’re beginning the year slowly, you’re not behind. You’re welcome here.

May this season meet you with steadiness, compassion, and enough grace for today.

Wishing you peace, steadiness, and gentle hope in the year ahead.Happy New Year from Pier 34.
01/02/2026

Wishing you peace, steadiness, and gentle hope in the year ahead.

Happy New Year from Pier 34.

When You’re Ready to Begin Again (New Year’s Edition)The year is almost over, and everywhere you look there’s pressure t...
12/31/2025

When You’re Ready to Begin Again (New Year’s Edition)

The year is almost over, and everywhere you look there’s pressure to decide who you’ll be next.

But beginning again doesn’t have to be loud or certain.
It doesn’t require resolutions, reinvention, or a perfect plan.

Sometimes starting over simply means letting yourself breathe after a hard season — and trusting that the next step will come when you’re ready.

You don’t have to rush into January.
Grace is not on a deadline.

When You’re Ready to Begin Again (New Year’s Edition)You don’t have to rush into the new year with resolutions or answer...
12/29/2025

When You’re Ready to Begin Again (New Year’s Edition)

You don’t have to rush into the new year with resolutions or answers. Sometimes beginning again looks like standing still long enough to breathe — to notice what survived, what softened, what quietly carried you through.

If this year took more than it gave, you’re not behind. Healing doesn’t reset on January 1st. It unfolds when you’re ready — gently, honestly, at your own pace.

When you’re ready to begin again, let it be slow.
Let it be rooted in grace.
Let it be real. 💙

For Those Who Made It to ChristmasIf today feels joyful, we’re glad.And if today feels heavy, quiet, or complicated — yo...
12/26/2025

For Those Who Made It to Christmas

If today feels joyful, we’re glad.
And if today feels heavy, quiet, or complicated — you’re not alone.

Some people arrive at Christmas rested and whole. Others arrive simply because they kept going.

If all you did this year was survive, that matters. If you showed up imperfectly, that counts. If you’re still healing, still waiting, still unsure — you belong here too.

Christmas reminds us that hope didn’t arrive loud or polished.
It arrived small.
It arrived gently.
It arrived for people who were tired.

So wherever you find yourself today —
May peace meet you there.

Merry Christmas from Pier 34. 🤍

12/25/2025

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Our Story

The term “little brother” can awaken memories of sibling rivalry, broken toys, and tattle-tales. The term “little brother” can also bring to mind fond memories of forts, mud-pies, and a person who knows you better than you know yourself. Rob was my “little brother” and the mention of his name echos all of these recollections.

Rob passed away at the age of 34 after a long battle with Bipolar Disorder. He was found as if napping in his apartment on a summer afternoon and I will never know why. Rob had suffered for 14 years, but with therapy and medication, he was beginning to experience an improved quality of life. This help should have come much sooner.

My grief consumed me, missing him so much at times I could hardly breathe. I had come to think of myself as his safe harbor that he could turn toward when he was sad, sick, or afraid. But what I realized was that I had not only lost my best friend, but my pier on the water as well. Where would I turn now?

As a therapist, I found myself exasperated with the lack of mental health resources available for those not only in need, but as human beings, deserving of help. One morning, I approached my office mate. We tossed around ideas for months, with mostly me tossing and Donnie telling me why it wouldn’t work. But we finally decided on a model that we mostly agreed on.