Choosing Love

Choosing Love Marriage doesn't have to be a battle, but you will have to fight for it.

even as the Son of Man came not to be served but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many. Matthew20:28
04/03/2026

even as the Son of Man came not to be served but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many.
Matthew20:28

I Peter 2:24 “He Himself bore our sins in His body on the cross, so that we might die to sin and live for righteousness;...
04/03/2026

I Peter 2:24 “He Himself bore our sins in His body on the cross, so that we might die to sin and live for righteousness; by His wounds you have been healed.”

04/02/2026

PART 2- If you have experienced infidelity in your marriage, know that there is hope of healing. Not just hope of your marriage surviving but potentially becoming better than ever. For this transformation to occur, these are some critical steps that have to occur and I want to share them with you.

In this post we will discuss what is called a disclosure. This is when the unfaithful spouse discloses everything about the affair. How and when the affair started, how long it lasted, was the relationship sexual, emotional or both. The betrayed spouse is entitled to every detail but I don’t always recommend knowing every detail. As the betrayed spouse you are entitled to have your spouse share absolutely everything but also know that many details, like sexual positions or specific sexual activity are not helpful but deeply hurtful. I recommend the unfaithful spouse writing out the disclosure letter and then reading it to their spouse. Allow the unfaithful spouse to read the letter uninterrupted and when it’s concluded, then the betrayed spouse may ask any questions or ask for clarification on anything disclosed.

Lastly, I highly recommend doing this disclosure with a trained professional who is skilled in this process: pastor, counselor, marriage mentor, etc. For additional resources: choosinglove.info TreyandAmy Dixon

04/02/2026

PART 1- If you have experienced infidelity in your marriage, know that there is hope of healing. Not just hope of your marriage surviving but potentially becoming better than ever. For this transformation to occur, these are some critical steps that have to occur and I want to share them with you. The first step is that the affair relationship has to be completely ended. Both spouses need to be present when the final email or text is sent to let the affair partner (AP) letting them know that the relationship is over and you are choosing to work on your marriage. There needs to be a very direct statement to never contact each other again and that any communication attempts will be blocked and promptly disclosed to your spouse. If the AP is a coworker, every attempt to change departments and ultimately to change jobs must be made. For the betrayed to heal and move forward knowing that the unfaithful spouse will still see and possibly even work with the AP is almost impossible. I can not overstate how important this is for the healing process.
Lastly, all communication channels have to be closed. Secret emails, burner phones, communication apps, if communication happened on games or social media accounts then all of those accounts need to be closed and deleted. DO NOT leave any door open for the AP to reach out. For additional resources: choosinglove.info TreyandAmy Dixon

04/02/2026

Don't believe the lies. In Session Three "Agreements" we talk about what it means to break agreements, understand that we are in a spiritual battle but that we have already been given the tools to combat the lies the enemy tells us!

visit choosinglove.info/video-series to learn more!

03/28/2026

Our next date night is on the Calendar! June 5th we want to come together and just have fun! Register and get more info by going to choosinglove.info/events Spots will fill up quick so don’t wait!

03/25/2026

What are the lies the enemy has sold you? Have you bought into them or rejceted them? In marraige we all come with baggage and some of that baggae comes through the lies we believe.

Through this video series we walk you though identifing the lie in your life and/or marriage. Let's walk this out together. Visit choosinglove.info/video-series gather your small group, church or freinds and start beliving the truth and discarding the lies!

03/18/2026

"we can either fight against God or we can go along with him."

03/13/2026

Choosing love also is choosing to trust the Lord. This and more is disccused in our Marraige series. Visit our website, gather some friends or go through this on your own and start choosing love!

choosinglove.info/video-series

03/11/2026

Choosing Love is a daily thing!
Our Video series walks us through understanding how we have to choose to love someone.

Have you started the series? If not, why not start now? Invest in your marriage! Visit our website, order the workbook and get started.

Choosinglove.info/video-series

Our first Date Night of the year was so much fun! These nights are meant for fun, community and choosing love! Don’t mis...
03/02/2026

Our first Date Night of the year was so much fun! These nights are meant for fun, community and choosing love! Don’t miss out on our next one! R

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