12/11/2025
🎁 On the 5th Day of Christmas, My Counselor Gave to Me… 5 Boundaries! 🎄
The holidays can absolutely be stressful, but they ultimately shouldn’t cost your peace. Boundaries help us slow down, stay present, and enjoy what actually matters. Here are 5 boundary gifts you can give yourself this season:
🎄 1. The “Not Right Now” Boundary
It’s okay to pause, rest, or respond later. You don’t have to be immediately available.
🎁 2. The Time Limit Boundary
Shorter visits, events, or calls count. Presence > hours spent. (Think quality over quantity)
🕯️ 3. The Budget Boundary
Meaning doesn’t come from spending more—only from being present. Set a number, and stick to it without guilt.
🍪 4. The Energy Boundary
If it drains you, shorten it. If it nurtures you, make space for it. Protect what helps you slow down and fills your cup.
💬 5. The “Thank You, No” Boundary
You don’t have to explain to decline an invite, a request, or a tradition that no longer fits. Certainly be kind, but give yourself permission to use "no, thank you" as a full sentence.
✨ Healthy boundaries create room for joy, peace, and genuine connection.
See you tomorrow for Day 6! 🎉
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