02/14/2026
Life Story and Service Details for
DAKOTA "CODY" PHILLIPS
Dakota Phillips, 26, of Kaneville, affectionately known by his family and friends as “Cody”, left this earthly realm far too soon on February 13, 2026, leaving those closest to him dreaming of a world where his spark could continue to illuminate their lives.
He was born in Geneva, Illinois, on May 27, 1999, to proud and loving parents Kevin Phillips and Aimee Lave.
Cody spent the first seven years of his life living with his mom, dad, and two sisters in Kaneville. The family then packed up and moved to South Dakota. As a young child Cody was a bright and inquisitive boy. He was emotionally in tuned to his surroundings and loved to strike up a conversation with his family, friends, and even strangers he met out and about. He was down to earth, loved life, and his family referred to him as a gentle giant who gave the best hugs. You could always find him out riding his bike and he surrounded himself with a tight group of friends. As he entered his early teens he developed a love for gaming on his Xbox. He never limited himself to one game and thoroughly enjoyed his vast catalog. Right before Cody started his senior year of high school his family returned to Kaneville where they remain to this day. Cody graduated from Kaneland High School class of 2017.
For the past three years Cody diligently worked at the Valvoline in Elgin as the shop manager. He was well respected by his coworkers for his determination, strong work ethic, and kind reliable nature. He poured so much of his time and energy into his work and prioritized his job. He will clearly be missed by all of his coworkers, who will certainly be feeling a void.
Cody’s zest for life was never missed on his family. One constant in his life was the running theme of family always comes first. He took full advantage as a young child of the fact that he lived right next door to his grandma and grandpa. He constantly stopped over and always looked forward to his grandmother’s French toast. Throughout his life he had an affinity for playing cards which he most likely inherited from his mother. On game nights he would be the only young person at the table amongst his aunts. They loved to play Hand in Foot and Cheat Your Neighbor. Growing up his first best friends were his cousins which were all close in age. Him and his cousin Brandon both had a shared love of the tv show Family Guy and could easily quote the show verbatim, laughter would fill the air anytime they were together. He loved his dog Freya more than anything, she was often by his side while he gamed but always loved to snuggle up to him at night. She will miss him dearly. When Cody’s mother, Aimee passed away she saved multiple lives through organ donation which brought Cody immense pride. Cody, also being an organ donor would be at peace knowing that he himself saved many lives as well through his own organ donation. His bright and infectious spirit may no longer be in our presence, but his family and friend’s memories will be where he lives on.
Cody is survived by his father, Kevin Phillips; his sisters: Cecily (Josh) Duehning and Courtney (Chris) Cashen; his paternal grandmother, Jane Phillips; many loving aunts and uncles and cherished cousins.
He was preceded in death by his mother, Aimee Lave; his paternal grandfather, Donald Phillips Jr.; his maternal grandparents, Harold and Marlene Lave; and his cousin, Nicholas McCarney.
Family will be holding services and interment privately.
In lieu of flowers, please consider donating to an animal shelter of your choice in Cody’s memory. Memorials may be mailed in care of P.O. Box 66, Elburn, 60119. Tributes may also be forwarded to the same address, the Conley Funeral Home page, or at www.conleycare.com.