12/22/2025
Not every breastfeeding mom can just pump.
And no, it’s not a choice.
Some moms breastfeed beautifully 🤱
Baby latches. Baby transfers milk. Baby grows.
Everything works.
Until you tell her to “just pump.”
Here’s what people don’t understand:
A breast pump is not a baby.
It doesn’t smell like your baby.
It doesn’t stimulate hormones the same way.
It doesn’t move its jaw or tongue the same way.
And for some bodies, that matters. A lot.
Some moms make plenty of milk for their baby
but barely respond to a pump at all.
Nothing comes out. Or very little.
Or it’s excruciatingly painful no matter what fl**ge they try.
Or pumping triggers anxiety, nausea, or stress that shuts milk down even more.
Some babies will not take a bottle.
Not later. Not eventually. Not after trying every ni**le on the market.
They nurse fine, but bottles are a hard no.
And pumping is not free.
Pumps cost money.
Replacement parts cost money.
Flanges cost money.
Milk storage bags cost money.
Bras cost money.
Time costs money.
Pain costs something too.
So when a mom says pumping is not an option
believe her.
She is not being dramatic.
She is not refusing help.
She is not uneducated.
She is not doing it the hard way on purpose.
She knows her body.
She knows her baby.
And she already tried to make it work.
Breastfeeding is not one size fits all.
And pumping is not a universal solution.
If you didn’t live it
please stop explaining it.