11/27/2025
I am reminded this morning of that old Thanksgiving song that started like this: "Over the river and through the woods to Grandmothers house we go" It has been since 1993 my Dads last Thanksgiving here on earth, since my family has had Thanksgiving with my Mom, their Grandmother. Today we will be headed over the Kennebec River and through some woods to have Thanksgiving with Mom. This is the first ever Thanksgiving with my Step Dad. He is so excited to have us all coming. Mom is embracing living in Maine knowing her loving family is here for her through the tough times of being older.
Another reminder of how losing someone in the family can change family dynamics. We all moved after Dad passed. A loss that still is hard. Although he leaves signs everywhere and I know I am connected with him it is not the same.
If you are struggling today because of loss, be gentle with yourself. Grab onto the memories, the impression that those that are on the other side have left with you.
Today I remember that every single year Dad had us all watch John Candy in Trains, Planes and Automobiles. I know Dad must be in heaven laughing with John Candy telling him how he became our Thanksgiving Tradition.
Your loved ones are with you, I promise. In your hearts and in spirit. Trust the signs you receive.
I will make my Grandmothers cranberry orange sauce and everyone is excited for that.
Happy Thanksgiving everyone!