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04/30/2026

“Failure to progress.”

It is the leading reason given for unplanned cesareans today.

Research has found that the outdated labor curve from the 1950s is still followed by about half of obstetricians in the US.

Leading to high rates of cesarean.

Your body did not fail.

The system failed to wait.

We are told that labor must follow a strict, predictable timeline.

That you must dilate at a specific rate, or your body is “stalling.”

But physiological birth doesn’t work like that.

Dilation can change rapidly, or progress steadily throughout labor.

But a maternity system built on efficiency and predictability may struggle to hold space for anything outside of their timeline.

This is where pressure to intervene may begin.

If someone recommends speeding up your labor, try asking these questions:

Am I safe? Is my baby safe?

What are the risks and benefits to this option?

Can we explore alternatives? What about breast pumping or position changes to augment labor?

What if I do nothing and continue laboring as I have been?

There isn’t a specific time to stop laboring and choose a cesarean.

It’s more about looking at the full picture.

How are you and baby doing? What are your preferences? What have we tried and not tried?

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With love,
Victoria

Rebecca says: We wound up having a very, very good overall hospital experience for as much stress as the doctor’s office...
04/30/2026

Rebecca says: We wound up having a very, very good overall hospital experience for as much stress as the doctor’s office had been causing me in the previous weeks.

And so we’re home now with our sweet little boy, and things have been great.

The giant baby I was expecting that the doctor was originally trying to tell me would be, you know, 10 lbs. 11 oz. by their calculations… was born in four pushes and weighed 9 lbs. 2 oz.!

The cool thing is the doctors who had been giving me trouble were honestly never involved.

There was a different doctor on call in the hospital whenever I was in labor who was not affiliated with that practice at all, and she was wonderful.

She respected all of mine and my husband’s wishes. Anytime she had something different to suggest, she would explain it very thoroughly and still leave the ball in our court.

She was on board with the delayed cord clamping, but then in the moment actually when my son had crowned, she did have to tell us very quickly.

She’s like, “I am so sorry. I want to respect your cord clamping; however, it is wrapped twice around his neck. I do need to cut it.”

And we said hey, you know what, we were always reasonable if there’s an emergency.

Once she got him out, she held up the length of cord that was still attached to him and she was the best.

She said, “I can still do what I can and just hold this up,” and she let gravity make the blood that was in that bit of the cord make its way down. Then my husband cut it.

We just appreciated her entire approach, trying to keep as much of our wishes intact as possible, but also explaining when it couldn’t be that way, and with no real panic.

All of our nurses were amazing.

Oh, and not only was he significantly smaller than the fear-mongering doctors were trying to tell me he would be, there were no shoulder issues. The only issue was the cord.

And also, there was no tearing whatsoever!

04/29/2026

Your baby is not hospital property.

If you’re exhausted and want the nursery to take your baby so you can rest, or if your baby requires medical support, that is a completely valid choice.

Nurses and medical teams are phenomenal at providing that care.

But it is exactly that: a choice.

You have the legal right to make informed decisions for your baby the second they enter the world.

There is NO hospital policy that supersedes your parental rights.

You do not have to hand over your baby just because a routine checklist says it’s time.

You can decline the bath.

You can delay the weight and measurements until you are ready.

You can request that all routine evaluations be done while your baby is resting on your chest.

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With love,
Victoria

04/28/2026

They tell you lying on your back to push is standard because “it's easier for the provider.”

So we compromise physiology to make the doctor's job easier.

Leading to an increased risk in surgical birth, and perineal trauma.

Let that sink in for a moment.

Who is the most important person in the room?

You are.

Your provider is there to keep you safe.

This is the definition of cognitive dissonance: forcing people to birth on their backs in the name of safety... but leading to poorer outcomes.

Longer, more exhausting pushing phases.

Heart tone concerns for baby.

Tearing, perineal trauma, and longer recoveries for mothers.

We are literally creating the emergencies that we then have to medically treat.

That is absolute nonsense.

You have the human right to birth in whatever position you choose.

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With love,
Victoria

04/23/2026

Water birth challenges the cultural norm of intervention.

The water shields you.

Making it much harder for providers to pull on your baby, cut an episiotomy, or perform other interventions.

This is why water birth isn’t accepted by many providers and hospitals today.

Even though it’s a safe, evidence-based option for low risk families.

If providers can only be comfortable in their role when they have control, they’ll push back against water birth.

Because water birth forces you as a provider to learn how to practice hands-poised, instead of hands-on.

To hold a container of safety around a mother guiding her own birth.

That is something many providers do not know how to do.

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With love,
Victoria

Your birth plan is your advocacy tool. Not an illustration of how things will go. You can decline something on the birth...
04/23/2026

Your birth plan is your advocacy tool.

Not an illustration of how things will go.

You can decline something on the birth plan, and end up choosing to accept that tool anyway.

But entering birth indicating that you’re declining something may protect you from being offered that intervention routinely.

And the approach I like to take is very personal…

For example, it may not be necessary to use firm language around episiotomy on your birth plan with a provider who has an evidence-based episiotomy rate.

But for a provider with an episiotomy rate that is not evidence-based, it may be helpful to decline episiotomy, and indicate that you’ll be birthing in an upright position, with provider hands-off (if that’s what you want).

Some tips for sharing your birth preference sheet:

✨Show it to your provider during a third trimester appointment. Take an advocate with you.

✨Hand it to your nurse when you arrive at the hospital (if birthing there). Ask them if they can please support you in meeting these preferences.

✨If that nurse isn’t supportive of your preferences, you can request a new nurse.

I teach a FREE birth plan building workshop live every month.

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With love,
Victoria

04/21/2026

Water birth is a safe, evidence-supported choice for low risk families.

Maternal Benefits✨

• Pain Relief: Water immersion significantly lowers pain scores and reduces the need for epidurals or opioids.

• Fewer Interventions: It lowers the likelihood of needing artificial oxytocin (Pitocin) to speed up labor.

• Shorter Labor: It shortens the active first stage of labor by an average of 50 minutes.

• Perineal Protection: It decreases the rate of episiotomies and severe (third or fourth-degree) perineal tears.

• Satisfaction: Mothers report higher levels of relaxation, privacy, and overall satisfaction.

Newborn Benefits✨

• Gentle Transition: Warm water mimics the womb environment for the baby.

• Health Outcomes: Apgar scores, NICU admission rates, and overall health outcomes are the same if not better as babies born on land

• Less Meconium: Studies show lower rates of meconium (the baby’s first stool) in the amniotic fluid.

Maternal Risks✨

• Blood Loss Estimation: It is harder for providers to visually measure blood loss in water, though the actual volume of blood lost is similar to land births.

• Infection: There is a theoretical infection risk, but it is exceptionally rare when tubs and hoses are properly sanitized.

Neonatal Risks✨

• Cord Snapping: There is a rare risk of the umbilical cord tearing if the baby is pulled to the surface too quickly or forcefully.

• Water Aspiration: Breathing in water is incredibly rare because a healthy baby’s dive reflex prevents them from taking a breath until their face hits the air.

• Infection: Similar to the maternal risk, neonatal infection is avoided with strict equipment sanitation.

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With love,
Victoria

04/21/2026

Water birth is evidence-based.

So why is it inaccessible in so many hospitals?

The answer: the evidence-practice gap.

It can take decades for new research and evidence to make its way into policy and practice.

For that reason, evidence-based options may not become available in many hospitals for many years.

Not only do we need to expand options, we need to change the culture.

Providers may not believe water birth is safe (despite the evidence).

Perhaps they’re not interested in getting trained on delivering babies safely in the water.

Or perhaps they’re not comfortable with sitting on their hands.

Allowing birth to unfold normally without intervening can be challenging and uncomfortable for some providers.

Water birth makes it harder to intervene, which is why research has found it reduces intervention rates.

This is an option all low-risk families deserve access to.

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With love,
Victoria

04/21/2026

The American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists (ACOG) does NOT recommend labor induction for a suspected large baby alone.

If your provider is pushing an induction solely based on ultrasound measurements (which are notoriously inaccurate in the third trimester) that recommendation is not evidence-based.

If this happens to you…

🔥 Check in with your intuition. Get quiet. What is your gut telling you about your body and your baby?

🔥 Weigh your options. Every single path in birth carries different risks. You get to choose which risks you are comfortable taking.

🔥 Remember your rights. Induction is an option, and you always have the right to decline.

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With love,
Victoria

Emma says: “It was the best feeling when I got to reach down and feel his head as he was coming out, and even more speci...
04/21/2026

Emma says: “It was the best feeling when I got to reach down and feel his head as he was coming out, and even more special when I held him the first time and got to see Alex’s face light up.

The breathing techniques were especially good. I was also able to really be in the moment.

I don’t think I would have remembered much of the birth without you and your techniques helping me realize where I was, who was supporting me, and that I was about to meet my boy soon.

You basically helped me ground myself in the moment, and I was just so glad I felt prepared.”

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