11/08/2025
Likewise, no matter where we are in the healing process, we are enough — and we are complete right there. When we look through this lens, we begin to see the judgment, impatience, and pressure we’ve been putting on ourselves. We realize that although our inner process can be messy and troubled at times, it is no less perfect than any other part of nature. It’s the most natural thing there is.
When we view our wounds this way, yet stay present with them, the burden of healing lightens even further. Instead of saying to ourselves, “You’re not finished until you feel or
act in this ideal way,” we might say, “You are absolutely whole and perfect as you are — and there will always be ways we can heal and grow together.”
This helps us learn to hold a paradox — to give ourselves permission to be happy even as healing unfolds and life remains challenging. This, of course, only increases our capacity to heal. In this way, all parts of ourselves retain their dignity throughout the path and practice. They are inherently worthy — not only when they perform according to our ideals. There never was, and never will be, anything wrong with them.
There may still be hurt, but in this wholeness, everything is somehow also okay.
What does it feel like to see yourself in this way?