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12/23/2025

We’re all familiar with the kind of sadness that feels unresolvable—the one heavy with self-pity, longing, lack, defeat, or hopelessness. It loops on itself and grows denser, often gathering shame, doubt, fear, and eventually pulling us toward depression. This is unwholesome sadness, the sadness that arises from an inner sense of separation and insecurity.

But when we feel safe and connected—or when we hold ourselves with compassion—sadness transforms. It becomes what I call wholesome grief: an emotion that gathers,
concentrates, and then releases the unwholesome emotions it has absorbed, returning them to the larger field of interconnection.

Wholesome grief doesn’t cripple us; it liberates us. It carries us, again and again, back into equanimity and prepares the heart for forgiveness, insight, or surprising joy. To discern whether you’re experiencing unwholesome sadness or wholesome grief, you can ask yourself: “Will I be okay in the end?”

If the answer is anything other than yes, you’re likely coming from separation and insecurity—and your sadness may have blended with other painful emotions. The remedy is compassion: restoring safety, restoring connection, and allowing sadness to alchemize through the transformative process of wholesome grief. It all depends on how it’s held.

How are you holding your sadness today?

12/21/2025

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12/19/2025

There is nothing wrong with wanting or longing. The real question is: What are we longing for? When our longing is directed outward—toward circumstances we don’t have or conditions we can’t control—it creates a painful sense of distance and lack.

But when our longing turns toward what we already are at the deepest level—whole, connected, loving, spacious—then we are always only one breath away. This doesn’t mean we shouldn’t have good conditions in our lives. It means we can move toward them from an already complete place within ourselves, emotionally and spiritually.

Ironically, things tend to come more easily from this place… and even when they don’t, we’re already held. When we find ourselves down and wishing life were different, we can offer compassion to ourselves and our predicament. And we can also use longing as a wise messenger—gently rerouting our heart’s energy back into ourselves, finding our deepest home within, and drawing nourishment from there.

So what do we truly want? What is our deepest longing?

12/18/2025

Pleasant or wholesome emotions are not just enjoyable — they are powerful allies on the spiritual and healing path. They help our systems settle, relax, and feel safe enough to open the painful places and the deeper truths within us. They even support the body’s natural processes of repair.

When we don’t simply ride the highs of circumstance—feeling good when life goes well—but intentionally invite wholesome emotions into our practice, something profound happens. Joy, gratitude, curiosity, wonder, playfulness, tenderness… all of these strengthen our confidence, our faith, our clarity, and our ease. The more we choose them, the more familiar they become, and the more our brain and body learn to generate them. Over time, these wholesome emotions build the inner strength we need to keep going through the challenges of life and the intensity of deep healing work. We create a refuge of
goodness within us. And eventually, we discover something even more extraordinary: beneath that cultivated goodness lies a fundamental goodness we did not create—a goodness woven into the fabric of the universe itself. It holds us, supports us, and embraces us in all the messiness of our humanness.

What wholesome emotion might support you today?

12/16/2025

Whether it’s subtle irritation or blind rage, anger tries to help us by creating boundaries, reclaiming power, and pulling us out of emotional numbness or indifference. When held
with gratitude and compassion, it often softens into exhaustion or sadness and reveals the wounds beneath it.

Longing, whether a gentle preference or an urgent demand, tries to gather our energy toward something that might please, protect, relieve, or distract us from pain. When it’s met
with care, it can melt just like anger does—revealing the unmet need or hurt underneath.

Anxiety tries to protect us by keeping us alert and scanning for potential danger. Because it’s inherently unstable and uncomfortable, it often cascades into longing or anger. But
when anxiety is held with gratitude and compassion, it reveals the tenderness and vulnerability it has been guarding.
Shame, whether mild embarrassment or deep self-loathing, is one of the most self-limiting emotions. It tries to keep us small, contained, and within a familiar sense of self so we don’t risk exposure or hurt. When met with compassion, shame can transform into ease, openness, and even playfulness.

Doubt is subtle but powerful. It tries to help by warning us of potential risks, encouraging us to play it safe so we don’t repeat past suffering. It becomes especially strong when we’re
trying something new, making big changes, or forming important commitments. It works closely with fear and shame. But when noticed with mindfulness and offered steadiness and reassurance, doubt transforms into grounded confidence and clarity.

And finally, sadness—it helps by showing us what we care about, often reminding us only when something is gone or changing. It invites us to let go and return to connection.
Sadness naturally mixes with compassion, which helps it release and move toward ease…and even joy.

Which of these protective emotions is showing up in you today—and what might it be trying to help you with?

12/13/2025

Justin Michelson is an author, teacher, meditation guide, and community builder dedicated to making Dharma practice accessible and alive in everyday life. Free audio meditations from his book can be found here:

https://www.justinmichelsondharma.com/thedharmaofhealing/practices

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12/11/2025

We can experience a rudimentary form of equanimity simply when nothing is triggering us, when life is quiet, or when we’re temporarily free from stress. This version feels more like
neutrality born from lack of input than genuine inner balance.
Or we can experience equanimity in its full expression—a quality that emerges as the hard-won result of healing, insight, and emotional integration. In this mature form, equanimity becomes a refuge for the heart, a stable ground of connection within us. From here, wholesome emotions arise effortlessly and naturally: compassion, curiosity, clarity,
patience, courage, and care.

To discern which form is present in us, we can ask a simple but revealing question: Do I feel connected and responsive, or disconnected and dismissive? The answer tells us whether we’re tasting the surface of equanimity—or resting in its
awakened depth.

12/09/2025

The usual language of “negative emotions” doesn’t serve us well on the spiritual path. While emotions may feel dualistic, we can use labels that point more skillfully toward their deeper causes.

At the simplest level, we might say that some emotions are pleasant and others unpleasant. They may not feel good, but no emotion is inherently bad or negative. We can also go deeper and call some emotions safe or fulfilled—the ones that arise when our emotional or physical needs are met— and others unsafe or unfulfilled, the ones that emerge when safety or connection is missing.

Personally, I like the terms wholesome and unwholesome to describe the two broad families of emotion. Some arise from, and are sustained by, a sense of wholeness and connection. Others arise from, and are sustained by, an experience of separateness, aloneness, or disconnection.

These labels are far more helpful: they point toward underlying causes and hint at the path forward. When we feel disconnected, a whole constellation of emotions emerges within that environment. What can we do? We can restore connection. Instead of fighting these emotions or trying to conquer them, we can offer them what they
actually need—care, warmth, and compassion. When we bring connection to the places in us that feel disconnected, emotions like anger, longing, anxiety, shame, and doubt can finally transform into the connected expressions they have been trying to become all along.

What emotions arise in you when you feel connected—or disconnected?

12/07/2025

Emotions can be understood as the affective dimension of our consciousness. They are neither purely physical nor purely mental, but appear as felt sensations in and around the
body. When we place our attention on these emotional sensations—our emotional body—we open a powerful doorway into healing and insight.

As we attune in this way, we often discover that what we thought was a single emotion was actually tangled up with judgments, stories, and sometimes several additional emotions. When we strip away these mental layers, we begin to feel the emotion as it truly is—often lighter, clearer, and far easier to work with. Other times, what we assume is strictly physical pain is, upon closer inspection, partly or entirely emotional in nature. Or at the very least, we discover that our resistance to physical discomfort amplifies it dramatically. Refining our mindfulness to perceive the essence of an
emotion—beneath the thoughts, reactions, and secondary layers — is a skill we can learn. When we do, the processes of healing and insight become far more efficient and effective.

So how many emotions are there? No one really knows. Some modern researchers name more than twenty-five. Ancient Buddhist texts list fifty-two distinct mental-emotional
states. And of course, the landscape shifts depending on our culture, lived experience, and biological state. In the diagrams I offer in The Dharma of Healing, I distill our emotional world into twelve core energies, describe their qualities and functions, and show how they illuminate a path of
healing and insight when used as the focal point of practice.

Check them out—see if you can recognize all twelve within yourself, and notice how each one is trying to help you.

12/05/2025

MYSTERY
I went to the forest in search of mystery
I crossed one river, and then the next,
until I found a barren aspen grove
Quiet, stark naked yet without Spring leaves.

My body knew in an instant what looked like many was one.
I could feel the white/black branches of the grove
Send themselves furiously upwards like bolts of lightning
Traveling the open blue/night sky.

And the wind thundered through the valley around me,
Whirling around the bodies of wild things,
Gathering, and then bursting into pieces
On the pine needles and willow twigs.

And the waters in the river kept churning,
Whirling around invisible shapes
Carrying away the edges of the mountain above
Smoothing and smashing the bed rocks of the Earth.

So I laid down within the land, and let it enter me
Let it breathe and build inside me
Until my eyes no longer betrayed me.
Until my heart released its name.
Until my body became the world.
And waited there.

Till we rose to walk a new path home.

- Justin Michelson

12/03/2025

Emotions make such an effective focal point for several reasons. First, they sit at a unique midpoint within our being. They power our thoughts “above,” and they are woven intimately into the physical body “below.” And when engaged skillfully, they open a conduit through the heart to something greater than ourselves. In this way, emotions become the connective tissue between body, mind, and spirit.

Healing our emotional life therefore sends effects throughout our whole being — including the limiting beliefs and narratives we hold. This is why self-compassion can create system-
wide coherence and transformation.

Second, using emotions as the center of practice prevents bypassing. If we focus only on the body, as is common in meditation, we may sink beneath thought and emotion and miss the very patterns that trouble us. If we focus solely on awareness, spaciousness, or
interconnection, the same blind spots can remain.

Centering on thinking is another option, but the speed, stickiness, and complexity of thoughts often outpace us and distract us from the emotional currents fueling them. Attending to emotion as felt in the body, however, creates an inclusive focal point that keeps us grounded, engaged, and present.

Third, practicing with emotion eventually brings us into contact with our deepest
unconscious drives and sources of distress—our existential fear, dread, and terror—which we may never touch in ordinary meditation, or which overwhelm us when they surface. These primal forces, held in ancient regions of the brain, limit our freedom far more than our looping thoughts or physical discomfort ever could.

Finally, skillful meditation with emotion leads to deep healing across body, heart, and mind—restoring fundamental safety and connection throughout our entire being. This inner coherence becomes the fertile soil in which wholesome heart-qualities can take root and liberating spiritual insights can grow and mature.

How have emotions shown up in your meditation practice?

12/02/2025

If you’re anything like I was, you might’ve grown up believing the opposite—that emotions are weak, irrational, or something we should override through willpower. But it’s often this very lack of respect for them that causes our emotional life to become imbalanced and
distorted, and the consequences echo through every part of our world.

In our relationships, this emotional suppression and illiteracy creates distance and a lack of genuine intimacy—with ourselves and others. In our bodies, it becomes the tension we carry or even the illness we develop. In our spiritual lives, it shows up as a loss of embodied connection to the essence of life itself.

Without our emotions on board, we struggle to feel balanced, connected, or truly tuned in. We think we’re the ones steering our experience, but when we look inside, we discover many other hands on the wheel—pressing the gas, the brakes, and sometimes both at once.
These are our unconscious emotional patterns acting on our behalf, often without our awareness.

Until we’re ready to befriend them, they will keep taking us back to the same places again and again.

What emotions are driving you right now?

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