01/30/2026
Something I tell my clients often:
Wanting companionship later in life doesn’t mean you’re lonely—it means you’re wired for connection. Life does not get easier as you age, but having someone special to navigate difficulties does make a difference. It is important that you consider your values and make sure you are on the same page.
You can be independent and want someone to share a meal with. You can love your quiet routine and miss having a person who really knows you. Those things don’t cancel each other out.
Healthy relationships at this stage aren’t about fixing each other or filling a void. They’re about mutual care, good conversation, and choosing connection—again and again.
Also, a sense of humor helps. If you can laugh together, that’s already a green flag. 😊