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Part 2 of 5 — Why ADHD Makes the Fall Steeper      by Jon L. Thomas, EdD, LPCIn Part 1, we named a pattern: young men wh...
03/24/2026

Part 2 of 5 — Why ADHD Makes the Fall Steeper
by Jon L. Thomas, EdD, LPC

In Part 1, we named a pattern: young men who escape tightly structured environments, only to collapse under the weight of freedom.

Now let’s add the missing amplifier.

ADHD doesn’t create this crash —but it makes the drop steeper, faster, and harder to recover from.

I’ve been watching this pattern since the early 2000s — back when syllabi were still printed and “the portal” wasn’t something students forgot to check for three weeks straight. The technology has changed. The nervous systems haven’t.
Read the article: https://drive.google.com/file/d/1mi5hlZYVtSNT1DRgW2RvNCGcG0_9UE0g/view?usp=drive_link

College Failure and ADHD: Why Young Men Struggle — and How a Second Launch Can Succeed - Over the years, I’ve sat with m...
03/24/2026

College Failure and ADHD: Why Young Men Struggle — and How a Second Launch Can Succeed -

Over the years, I’ve sat with many young men and their families at a very specific crossroads.

A student leaves for college bursting with hope and relief — finally free from the “tyranny” of a tightly structured childhood — only to watch things unravel faster than anyone expected. Grades fall. Confidence collapses. Shame moves in. And before long, he’s back home, discouraged and unsure how to try again.

What strikes me is not how rare this story is, but how predictable it has become — and how little language we have to talk about it without blame.

This series grew out of those conversations.

It’s an attempt to name what’s actually happening underneath the surface when a college launch fails, especially for young men with ADHD. Not to excuse responsibility, and not to fault parents or students — but to make sense of the developmental, emotional, and executive-function dynamics that so often collide at this stage of life.

If you’re a parent trying to help without making things worse, a young man wondering why independence feels harder than it “should,” or a professional supporting families through these challenges, my hope is that these essays provide understanding, relief, and a steadier way forward.

College failure doesn’t have to be the end of the story.
Sometimes, it’s where the real learning finally begins.

Read part 1 of 5: https://drive.google.com/file/d/1aPbDLwMLtjRAESgG6amcEpCMqMZaqbwY/view?usp=drive_link

Article from Dr. Thomas: "Planning as If the World Were Linear(and why that mostly works—until it doesn’t)"I’ve come to ...
03/11/2026

Article from Dr. Thomas: "Planning as If the World Were Linear
(and why that mostly works—until it doesn’t)"

I’ve come to think of this tension as a three-way conversation inside most projects: the part of us that imagines, the part that plans, and the part that revises once reality pushes back. I call them the Visionary, the Producer, and the Editor.

In nonlinear systems, planning alone isn’t enough. You need imagination to see what might be possible, structure to get started, and discernment to adjust when the system behaves differently than expected —what I call the Visionary, the Producer, and the Editor.

Continue reading here: https://drjonthomas.substack.com/p/planning-as-if-the-world-were-linear

Here’s a pattern I notice consistently at the start of each semester:People start off doing many things right.They make ...
02/02/2026

Here’s a pattern I notice consistently at the start of each semester:
People start off doing many things right.
They make plans, think ahead, and generally notice old habits before they turn into sabotage.
And then suddenly — out of nowhere — they feel overwhelmed.
It feels like holding too many thoughts at once.
saw this recently with a young man who, like many students at the start of a term, was striving to pay attention early, build better habits, and avoid the end-of-semester scramble that comes from ignoring small problems until they bite.
He was doing everything right.
And as he talked, I could feel it happening — that moment where clarity tipped into overload.

When the mind is full, not broken.

This is a classic span of apprehension moment — when nothing is actually wrong, but there’s simply more trying to happen than the mind can comfortably hold at once. Too many threads compete for limited mental space. In the midst of that moment, I suddenly recalled an old image from Harry Potter.

In the books, when Dumbledore’s mind becomes crowded, he doesn’t push harder.

He doesn’t try to “focus better.”

He pulls a thought out of his head and places it into the Pensieve — a kind of shared bowl where memories can be set aside — so it’s not lost, but it’s also not clogging the moment.

With that picture in mind, I suggested: What if you don’t need to solve all of this right now? What if you just need somewhere safe to put some of it? He immediately relaxed.

Continue reading this, and other engaging articles, written by Dr. Thomas on his Substack page: https://drjonthomas.substack.com/p/the-pensieve-problem

Jon and I just finished participating in the ADHD International Conference in Kansas City, MO. Great meeting so many won...
11/16/2025

Jon and I just finished participating in the ADHD International Conference in Kansas City, MO. Great meeting so many wonderful people, doing so many wonderful things for the ADHD community!

We were promoting Jon's second book, "Beyond the Edge of Chaos: ADHD, Identity, and the New Science of Thriving". Interested in scoping out a copy?
Buy it at Barnes&Noble: https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/beyond-the-edge-of-chaos-jon-l-thomas/1148695208

Shhh....we'll let you in on a little secret....Dr. Thomas's next book is coming out in August!  It's jam-packed with not...
07/01/2025

Shhh....we'll let you in on a little secret....
Dr. Thomas's next book is coming out in August! It's jam-packed with not only the tools and strategies you read about in the first book, but there's even MORE to embrace and employ.

Study skills and note-taking class could be a win-win for fall.  Contact us to reserve your seat!
07/01/2025

Study skills and note-taking class could be a win-win for fall. Contact us to reserve your seat!

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