RelationshipVision- Relationship Training: Individuals, Couples & Familes

11/07/2022

Once you get connected within yourself, all is possible. Without self-awareness, deeper connection and intimacy will continue to elude you, forever.

What is self-awareness and why is it necessary to connect?

If you’re in pursuit of connection, there is one thing you must understand is that you have to be self-aware. Self-awareness is the key to everything, but for the overwhelming majority of us being conscious and connected is more the exception than the rule; being disconnected from our experience, ...

10/31/2022

Despite how important being honest and real is or how much you wish to be and talk about being honest and real with each other, when it comes down to giving and receiving feedback, the communication tends to devolve, regardless what the topic is. Once the feedback gets or feels personal, tension builds, the emotional atmosphere intensifies, buttons get pushed, defensive reactivity derails the conversation and its downhill from there.

A common example of a prompt that most people would have difficulty with hearing or saying what one’s honest take is, but one that is a standard ‘must’ conversation in relationship therapy circles is. How do you feel towards your loved one and in the relationship?

After 6 plus decades of experience in relationships combined with 4 decades of clinical training and doing relationship therapy, I’ve come to realize that the inability to give and receive feedback applies to all people and relationships, in therapy or otherwise, is practically universal.

10/29/2022

Pre-marital counseling readies a couple to get out of their comfort zone, enter unfamiliar territory, having conversations about things they’d never otherwise talk about on their own, while being honest and real with each other...learn more: https://buff.ly/3OJpBe3

10/26/2022

10/23/2022

Create Emotionally Nourishing Relationships! Being honest and real in all relating encounters and relationships become second nature.

Relationship training for those in recovery begins after Stage II, after you've established a relationship with yourself.

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Stage III of Recovery - Creating Emotionally Nourishing Relationships (relationship training) Just like any co-creative process basic principles apply and essential skills must be practiced and honed. The primary factor contributing to the inability to connect is the lack of knowhow. In addition, be...

10/20/2022

Healthy, creative dating involves: assessment (of your own feelings and needs), communication (about feelings toward each other and the relationship), decision and action taken, all of which are done in the “here and now. “

10/15/2022

When you have a relationship with your Self, you’re better able to identify your thoughts, feelings, wants – whatever is going on inside of you, which make it possible to be understood, heard, seen, felt, get to know each other and connect more deeply and intimately. Learn more: https://buff.ly/37mGWZ9

10/13/2022

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10/12/2022

What happens when you're attracted to someone?
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10/10/2022

The term, boundaries is so often over-used and misused, the profound meaning and implications gets lost. Usually, it’s in the context of relating when your (personal) space is being violated or when you’re violating the other’s (personal) space.

I want to de-mystify boundaries so that there is a better understanding of their vital and sacred nature. Which boundaries are sacred and what makes them sacred? Continue reading: https://buff.ly/3yRBAQL

10/08/2022

There are a number of factors that make a relationship with a means of relief a ‘bad’ one:
• You lack the attention and presence required to make other connections or to maintain your current relationships. The relationship with the means of relief becomes primary while all others are rendered secondary and matter little.
• You become increasingly more isolated over time.
• The longer you’re actively involved, or consumed by it, the worse you feel.
• You’ll tend to prefer to be with those people who support your ’secret love affair’ and stay away from those you perceive to be a threat.
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Stage II Recovery: Developing the Relationship with Your Self (The Relationship Model of Addiction Book 3) The most important relationship is with your Self. Detailed understanding of the relationship with your Self.