10/18/2025
A Reflection on Humanity & Disconnection
Lately, I’ve noticed something deeply troubling in the way people relate to one another. I want to share a piece of my heart — not to call anyone out, but to call attention inward to what is happening to us as humans.
I give a great deal of my time, energy, and gifts quietly — whether through healing, hypnosis, spiritual support, or simply being present for someone in need. I don’t post it, I don’t seek praise. I do it because I believe in humanity.
But I’m seeing a growing pattern: people reaching out only when they need something… never to give, never to check in, never to simply connect.
Recently, after offering kindness and asking a simple question — not for business, not for personal gain, but simply to help someone else — I was met with hostility and accusation. My intention was completely twisted. And it made me realize something:
Disconnection has become a disease.
Not just from ourselves, but from empathy.
From understanding.
From basic human compassion.
This isn’t about one person or one moment. It’s about all of us.
It’s about who we are becoming if we don’t stop living through ego, status, and suspicion — and start returning to sincerity, humility, and humanity.
What follows is the beginning of a blog I recently wrote:
A message about disconnection, and why, if we don’t heal it, it may be what destroys us.
“I have been witnessing something quietly spreading through humanity — a kind of dis-ease that doesn’t show up on medical scans yet is deeply present in the way we live. We speak of healing, connection, and change, yet when the time comes to participate in it, many remain absent, or collectively kept distracted. We speak of community yet avoid communion. We ask for transformation yet resist engagement. This is not judgment — it is observation. And it leads me to a path of many questions.
Service vs. Being in Service
Somewhere along the way, we began to confuse having a service with being in service.
To have a service is to offer something — a skill, a session, a product. To be in service is far deeper. It is presence. Humility. A willingness to stand with another, not simply provide to another.
But I’ve come to see something difficult and true while launching my own service-based business: Many do not seek community — they seek a carrier. Not collaboration — but someone to hold the weight for them.
Those who are truly in service often become silently exhausted. Not because they give too much — but because they are pouring into systems rooted in taking, rather than receiving. One extracts. The other nourishes.
And so, I ask — how can authentic healing exist in a culture of depletion, where so much is taken and so little is truly received?”
To read the full article I have attached the link.
https://www.mystic-vibesllc.com/post/disconnection-and-healing
