10/30/2025
Cape CBI Therapist, Jay Masiello shares some advice on men's mental health....
"Recently, I asked a client, 'Growing up, when did you talk about how you felt?” His response. “I didn’t.'
It’s not worth saying “Men don’t know how to talk about feelings” when men are seldom given the opportunity to do so. Allow yourself to train a new muscle, your brain. See its growth in all aspects of your life.
Sometimes you have to try out a few gyms before committing to one. Finding the right therapist can be a similar endeavor. Some important questions to ask yourself when meeting with a therapist: Is this person interested in hearing me speak? Are they asking me interesting or stimulating questions? Are they asking me hard questions?
Therapy isn’t about being broken; it's about getting better. Mental health impacts your relationships, work, confidence, performance, and overall well-being. Whether you're experiencing difficult times or need someone to bounce thoughts/ideas off, working with a professionally trained therapist can facilitate emotional exploration and growth."