Wanderlust Soul• Psychic B

11/07/2025

Your Friday reminder 🫶

11/07/2025

11/06/2025

You can’t make someone change if they don’t believe they’re the problem.
That’s why arguing with a narcissist always feels like running in circles. They twist facts, deny reality, and somehow make you feel guilty for what they did.

Accountability feels like an attack to someone who’s built their identity on being right.
So they project, deflect, and blame everyone else instead.

A narcissist never changes because in their mind they’ve never done anything wrong. It’s always someone else’s fault.

11/06/2025

Healing changes the way you see everything. It teaches you that words without action are just noise, that love without effort becomes confusion, and that consistency is what makes connection feel real.

When you’ve been through enough heartbreak, you stop being impressed by the surface. You stop chasing potential and start paying attention to patterns. You start noticing how someone shows up when it matters, how they handle your vulnerability, and whether they protect your peace or disturb it.

Healing teaches you that it’s not enough for someone to say they care, they have to act like it. They have to be accountable, dependable, and emotionally aware. You learn that real love isn’t built on intensity or temporary highs, it’s built on steady effort, mutual respect, and safety.

You stop believing that love alone can fix everything. Because you’ve learned that love without honesty becomes manipulation, love without consistency becomes chaos, and love without safety becomes anxiety. The kind of love that lasts doesn’t just feel good, it feels calm. It feels secure. It grows in the light of truth, not in the shadow of potential.

Healing also teaches you to turn that lesson inward. You begin to hold yourself to the same standards you expect from others. You start showing up for yourself with consistency, patience, and compassion. You stop begging for effort and start giving that energy to your own growth.

And that’s when you realize something powerful, healing wasn’t about proving your worth to anyone else. It was about remembering it for yourself.

Because the kind of love you’ve been searching for starts with the kind of safety you learn to build within.

11/05/2025

Your children are watching your relationship.
Every day, in ways both big and small, they are observing how you and your partner interact. They notice the tone of your voice when you speak to each other—whether it is gentle, harsh, dismissive, or loving. They see whether you show affection, whether through words, gestures, or actions, or if you hold back and create distance. They pay attention to how you talk about each other when others are around, and even when they are not—whether you speak with respect or criticize and demean.

They are watching how disagreements unfold. Do you handle conflict with patience, understanding, and compromise, or with anger, blame, and silence? These moments leave lasting impressions, teaching your children what love is and what they should accept in their own relationships.

Your kids are constantly learning, absorbing lessons about respect, compassion, and boundaries. They will carry these lessons into adulthood, shaping their expectations of love, communication, and emotional safety.

So work hard, every single day, to show them what a healthy, nurturing, and respectful relationship looks like. Your actions now are the blueprint for how they will love tomorrow.

11/05/2025

Episode 17 🩵

11/02/2025

Let people think what they want.

You don’t owe anyone an
explanation for how you live your life.

10/20/2025

Your Monday reminder 🫶