01/10/2026
๐๐บ๐ผ๐๐ถ๐ผ๐ป๐ฎ๐น ๐ฟ๐ฒ๐ด๐๐น๐ฎ๐๐ถ๐ผ๐ป ๐น๐ผ๐ผ๐ธ๐ ๐ฑ๐ถ๐ณ๐ณ๐ฒ๐ฟ๐ฒ๐ป๐ ๐ฎ๐ ๐ฒ๐๐ฒ๐ฟ๐ ๐ฎ๐ด๐ฒ โ ๐๐ฃ๐ ๐๐ซ๐๐ง๐ฎ ๐จ๐ฉ๐๐๐ ๐ค๐ ๐ก๐๐๐.
From ๐ถ๐ป๐ณ๐ฎ๐ป๐๐ learning safety through connection
to ๐๐ผ๐ฑ๐ฑ๐น๐ฒ๐ฟ๐ navigating big feelings
to ๐ธ๐ถ๐ฑ๐ building coping skills
to ๐๐ฒ๐ฒ๐ป๐ learning how to pause before reacting
to ๐ฎ๐ฑ๐๐น๐๐ unlearning survival patterns
to ๐ฝ๐ฎ๐ฟ๐ฒ๐ป๐๐, ๐๐ฒ๐ฎ๐ฐ๐ต๐ฒ๐ฟ๐ (+caregivers), ๐๐๐๐ฑ๐ฒ๐ป๐๐ (+athletes), ๐ณ๐ถ๐ฟ๐๐ ๐ฟ๐ฒ๐๐ฝ๐ผ๐ป๐ฑ๐ฒ๐ฟ๐, and ๐ฉ๐ฒ๐๐ฒ๐ฟ๐ฎ๐ป๐ carrying the weight of othersโฆ
Regulation isnโt about โstaying calm.โ
Itโs about learning how to return to yourself โ again and again.
And the truth is:
No one is born knowing how to regulate emotions.
We learn it in relationship. We practice it over time. And sometimes, we need support to rebuild it.
If any of these made you feel seen โ youโre not alone.
And if regulation feels hard right now, that doesnโt mean youโre failing. It means your nervous system may need care, not criticism.
At Bestow, we support emotional regulation across the lifespan โ with compassion, evidence-based tools, and space to go at your pace.
๐ Fargo, ND + Detroit Lakes, MN
๐ป Learn more at bestowcounseling.com