02/12/2026
Hard truth: Growth requires accepting the difference between what someone could be and who they are showing up as right now.
Emotional maturity means understanding that not everyone will reflect on their behavior, take responsibility, or offer the apology you may deserve — and that waiting for this can keep you stuck. Many of us were taught to over-give, over-explain, and prioritize others’ comfort in the name of “keeping the peace,” often at the expense of our own well-being.
Setting boundaries can feel uncomfortable, but boundaries are not rejection — they are an act of self-respect. Emotional maturity is about staying grounded in your values, not internalizing others’ behavior, and choosing your peace even when it feels difficult.
You do not need someone’s acknowledgment or apology to move forward. Growth is choosing yourself anyway.