10/20/2025
✨Preparing for the Full Spectrum of Birth✨
So many birth classes and ideologies focus on a preferred or ideal way for birth to unfold — calm, connected, powerful, maybe even blissful. And yes, there are good reasons to seek out a birth like this.
But true preparation also means exploring what happens when things don’t go to plan. When birth feels wild, unpredictable, messy, or overwhelming. When even a “straightforward” birth feels more intense than you ever imagined.
Preparing only for the ideal can leave you feeling blindsided if birth asks something different of you.
Preparing holistically means learning how to meet whatever arises — the calm, the storm, the surrender.
In Birth Story Medicine sessions, we often meet women who did “all the right things,” yet felt unprepared for the reality of birth. Not because they didn’t research enough — but because they were never invited to prepare for the unknown.
Birth is both mystery and initiation. Preparing for both the wished-for and the unwished-for is an act of deep self-trust and wisdom.
💫 If you felt let down or blindsided by the way you prepared for birth, a Birth Story Medicine session can help you find meaning, peace, and self-compassion in what unfolded. You can’t rewrite the story, but you can transform the way it lives within you. DM us!