04/23/2026
Sometimes therapy is the first place people ever say things out loud… and that’s not small.
Putting feelings into words is a skill most of us were never taught. You might feel it in your body, think it in your head, but actually saying it? That’s a whole different level of vulnerability.
If you’re someone who struggles to open up, here are 3 ways to start:
1. Start messy, not perfect.
You don’t need the “right” words. Say it how it comes out, even if it’s “this doesn’t make sense but…” That’s where the real work begins.
2. Name the feeling, even if it’s vague.
“I feel off,” “I feel weird,” “something feels heavy.” You don’t need precision, you need honesty. Clarity comes after you start.
3. Use your body as a guide.
If words aren’t there yet, describe sensations: tight chest, lump in your throat, racing thoughts. Your body speaks before your words do.
Therapy isn’t about saying it perfectly, it’s about showing up@and trying . And that alone is powerful. 🤍