Lotus Counseling & Psychological Services

03/30/2026

03/29/2026

💔 Survivors of domestic violence often face unique challenges when navigating separation. Here are some aspects of post-separation abuse that can arise:

1️⃣ **Continued Manipulation**: Abusers may use emotional manipulation to maintain control over their victims, even after separation.

2️⃣ **Harassment**: Many survivors experience ongoing harassment through calls, texts, or social media, making it difficult to move on.

3️⃣ **Legal Battles**: Survivors may find themselves entangled in lengthy legal disputes over custody or property, which can be used as a form of abuse.

4️⃣ **Financial Control**: Abusers might exploit financial resources, leaving survivors struggling to support themselves and their families.

5️⃣ **Isolation**: Even after separation, abusers may attempt to isolate survivors from friends and family to regain power.

If you or someone you know is experiencing these challenges, know that you are not alone. Support is available. 💪💜

03/24/2026

03/23/2026

Abusers often exploit the court system, particularly in child custody cases. They can present themselves as calm and collected, while the victims, who are traumatized, may appear emotionally distressed. This manipulation can have devastating effects on the outcomes of such cases, as judges and decision-makers may unconsciously favor the abuser's façade over the victim's genuine emotional state.

It's crucial to recognize these dynamics and support those who are affected. We must create a safe space for survivors to share their stories and experiences, reminding them that they are not alone in this fight. Providing resources, advocacy, and understanding can empower survivors to reclaim their voices.

Let's raise awareness about this issue and stand by survivors! 💪💜

03/21/2026

03/20/2026

It’s Brain Injury Awareness Month. Let’s talk about the connection between domestic violence and traumatic brain injury, or TBI.

An abusive partner may use physical violence, including strangulation and inflicting direct trauma to a partner’s head, as a tactic of abuse.

⚠️ It’s important to know that strangulation is a strong indicator that a survivor is in IMMEDIATE DANGER of being killed by their partner.

Some traumatic brain injury warning signs to look out for in an abusive relationship are:

🚨 A headache that gets worse, or won’t go away
🚨 Persistent vomiting/nausea
🚨 Trouble with memory, concentration or thinking
🚨 Slurred speech
🚨 Convulsions or seizures

If you are experiencing any or all of these warning signs, get medical care ASAP.

And whenever you’re ready, call your local domestic violence hotline to make a plan to leave your partner safely. That number here in Philly is 1-866-723-3014. You can also call the National Domestic Violence Hotline to be connected to local resources for survivors at 1-800-799-7233.

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03/11/2026

03/06/2026

Lotus Counseling & Psychological Services, LLC is moving! We are excited to announce our move to 2300 Highland Village Road on April 1, 2026. We hope you will join us in celebrating this new chapter. More details and photos to come.

02/28/2026

02/14/2026

We are excited to announce a new counseling group for middle school girls starting in March. Contact us for more information or to sign up. pmartin@lotusflowermound.com or (469)240-2337, ext. 703

10/09/2025

October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month, a time to recognize that abuse can take many forms, including reproductive and s*xual coercion.

This involves pressuring or manipulating a partner’s choices related to s*x, pregnancy, and health. It can include sabotaging contraception, forcing s*xual activity, or controlling decisions about reproductive care, and it is NEVER okay.

Everyone has the right to make informed choices about their body, without pressure or manipulation! 💜

Learn more at:
👉 futureswithoutviolence.org
👉 healthpartnersipve.org
👉 ipvhealth.org

☎️ If you or someone you know needs help, call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-SAFE (7233)