12/13/2025
Parenthood can so easily start to feel like a competition.
Who’s rolling first, walking first, talking first, sleeping through the night first.
And social media doesn’t help. The highlight reels full of “early” milestones that make us question if we’re doing enough or if our baby is somehow behind.
But here’s the truth we don’t hear often enough:
Hitting milestones early does not predict future intelligence, success, or educational outcomes. It doesn’t mean one baby is “ahead” and another is “behind.” It simply means they’re different.
Instead of focusing on when milestones happen, what if we focused on what’s happening right now?
The tiny fingers wiggling in excitement.
The way they reach for a toy with so much determination.
The look of pure wonder when they lock eyes with you.
The small moments that don’t come with a chart or a timeline, but matter just as much, if not more.
Every baby develops at their own pace.
Every journey is unique, and babies don’t need to prove anything to anyone.
Let’s release the pressure, step out of comparison, and celebrate babies simply being babies, exactly where they are, exactly as they are. 🤍