03/02/2026
YOU SHOULDN'T FEEL BAD FOR GRIEVING.
Honestly, you can't grieve in a "wrong way"
Three examples of coping mechanisms that are healthy habits to form while grieving:
🤍 journaling -- write down every thought, good and bad. write letters to your baby, your doctor, to people who have supported you and those who have fallen short. get these feelings and thoughts out of your head and onto paper. It can be for your eyes only or a great tool to help communicate your grief with your partner or support people.
🤍 whenever you feel overwhelmed with your grief, go for a drive or for a walk and put on a podcast, music, or audiobook that focuses on humor or storytelling. the fresh air or new scenery will help a lot, too.
🤍 cry on purpose -- okay, this seems like a strange thing to recommend but getting those emotions OUT will feel so freeing. Not to mention, we need to normalize feeling our feelings and sometimes we just need to cry and cry and cry.
What are activities that you did following your loss that helped you? Comment below so others can get some ideas. I'm currently crocheting and wish I would have picked it up during my losses. 🤍