03/28/2026
Day 3 of Affirmations for Social Anxiety
Social anxiety isn’t just a feeling—it’s a way of thinking. People with social anxiety often have cognitive patterns that distort reality, making social situations seem more threatening than they are. Some common patterns include:
Catastrophizing: Expecting the worst-case scenario, e.g., “If I say something wrong, everyone will hate me.”
Mind reading: Assuming you know what others are thinking, usually negative, without evidence.
Excessive self-focus: Hyper-aware of your own actions, appearance, or speech, which makes you feel awkward or judged.
All-or-nothing thinking: Believing you must be perfect socially, or you’re a failure.
Overestimating threat / underestimating coping: You may exaggerate the danger of social situations and underestimate your ability to handle them.