03/14/2026
For many women, motherhood can be very different from how they expected it would be. The adjustment can lead to intense anxiety and feelings of self-doubt.
🤰 With changes to mind, body, relationships and routine, it’s no wonder that new moms are susceptible to mental and emotional health difficulties during this time.
After all,
You’re taking care of baby👩🍼.
Who’s taking care of you? 🤷♀️
👉 Here are some quick reality-check tips for moms:
1. Acknowledge that you’re in a challenging situation and a demanding role right now facing obstacles such as lack of sleep, a chaotic routine, cultural pressure, and social isolation. Doubts and fears are normal. Give yourself a bit of grace and expect some struggles and a lot of learning and growth.
2. Ask for help.
Most friends and family want to help, they may just not know how. So tell them what you need and be specific. Don’t be afraid to sound “selfish.” This is for everyone’s benefit!
3. Don’t compare yourself with other people’s Instagram moments. That’s not realistic or fair to you or your baby. This moment is about you… not them!
4. Take care of yourself: Give yourself permission to dedicate some regular time to self-care activities.
5. Consider therapy: Having a dedicated safe space to process all of the changes, talk through intense feelings, and build healthier thought patterns and coping skills can be an effective way to stay on top of your mental health.
6. Know the signs of postpartum depression, postpartum anxiety and postpartum psychosis, and don’t wait to get help.
Taking care of your wellbeing is a bit like ensuring your own oxygen mask is still on so that you can continue to assist your child. 🛩️
So give yourself permission to dedicate some regular time to self-care activities.
And remember that
- This is temporary.
- You’re not alone.
- Help is available.
- You will make it.
Read the full article on our blog (🔗 link in bio)
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Motherhood is exciting and fulfilling, but can also be overwhelming and frustrating. Many new moms experience feelings of anxiety and doubt.