12/22/2025
It’s the most wonderful time of the year… and if it doesn’t feel that way for you, that’s okay too. If the holidays feel heavy this year, you’re not doing anything wrong.
When stress is loud, our brains get very good at scanning for what’s missing, tense, or unresolved. One gentle way to steady yourself is to intentionally notice what’s good- not in a forced, toxic-positivity way, but in a real, grounded one.
Try this:
• One small moment that didn’t feel rushed
• One person who felt safe or kind
• One thing your body or mind handled better than you expected
Focusing on the good doesn’t erase what’s hard. It gives your nervous system a place to land so the hard doesn’t take over everything.
At Vervewell, we believe care for yourself starts with awareness, not perfection. If this season is asking more of you than you have to give, pause. Breathe. Notice what’s steady, even if it’s small.